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Success Mindset

THE HARDEST BIT IS WALKING AWAY FROM NOT FUCK YES

If you desire a different outcome to the one you’ve been allowing and repeating, and see a different reality show up and become your norm, then at some point you’re gonna need to get off that sweet ass and recode at the level of practical fucking action, not just energy.

Oh, what’s that now? You thought this work was ‘so cool’ because it’s all metaphysical and shit?

You thought you could just talk about the quantum and the energetic and higher self, about dancing between the physical and the ethereal, and bringing back art, magic, certainty, KNOW how and just ‘becoming the damn thing’ but not also DO the damn thing of BEING said damn thing?

Yeah …

Nah.

Not so much baby girl.

That is NOT how it works!

Oh, but somebody told you somebody told you somebody told you and besides it’s SO appealing and attractive to wanna believe that all you gotta do is THINK your way rich, FEEL your way successful, drop into the other place and space from where it is DONE and then just ‘snap it back to the now’?

Yeah … I get it! I’VE SAID ALL THESE THINGS MYSELF.

But if you think that that’s all I said or you in ANY way are telling yourself that’s the entire story then you didn’t listen very well, did you now?

Not to me.

And not to your own fucking SOUL.

Because the truth is that what you’ve always known is that the work of becoming who you were always meant to be is GOING TO HURT.

It is going to GRIND you.

It will burn.

It will pull.

It will stretch.

It will TEAR, and you can bet your ASS you’re gonna be grateful for that shit, too. How the fuck do you expect to become the new you anyway, without tearing apart the old?!

Oh, but it’s supposed to be flow! And ease! And fun! And butterflies! And unicorns! And MARSHMALLOWS, for the love of God WHERE ARE THE DAMN MARSHMALLOWS?

Probably up your ass with the Unicorn horn, which you’ll find is not always the MOST comfortable thing, y’know?

I mean –

Really.

Did you actually think that ‘ease and flow and fun’ somehow means NOT push, NOT (purposeful) pain, NOT grind, NOT stretching and tearing and overcoming and GROWING?

You –

Idiot!

How do you expect to grow without, uhhhh, GROWING, aka STRETCHING, MOVING, BECOMING –

New.

Here is the problem.

Here is where you missed a step.

Here is where you are singing yourself sweet lullabies of bullshit, night after night after night.

IT IS EASE AND FUN AND FLOW TO DO THE WORK BUT YOU STILL GOTTA DO THAT WORK AND MUCH OF THE TIME THIS WORK WILL FEEL LIKE A BIG ASS UNICORN HORN UP THE ASS UNTIL YOU STOP PUSHING AGAINST IT AND AGAINST YOUR OWN SOUL AND YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH IT.

In other words?

Just fall in love with the GRRRINNNNNNDDDD baby, and realise that what everybody else whinges and moans and cries about as being ‘hard’ or ‘extreme’ or ‘too much’ or ‘too scary’ is LIFE AND BREATH AND FUEL TO US.

To the called ones.

The chosen ones who also CHOSE THEMSELVES.

The ones who are willing to do what it takes, no matter what it takes, UNTIL it takes and then.keep.going!

This is who we ARE, this is who we have ALWAYS been, we WANT the push, we NEED the push, we BECOME the motherfucking push and we BREAK THROUGH TO WHERE IT FEELS LIKE ONLY FUN AND FLOW AND EASE, to do, be, have, create, allow ALL of what the world at large considers out of reach, and doesn’t even dare to DREAM about.

But – !

Before you get too fucking excited and start boo-yahing your ass all over the Internet, know this:

IT STARTS WITH BEING WILLING TO DO THE WORK YOU DON’T WANNA DO.

Would you like to know the HARDEST bit of this? Of course you would! I know you love a challenge 😉

The hardest bit is not the ‘doing’, as such.

It’s not sweating and grinding and bleeding and crying.

It’s not overcoming and triumphing and growing STRONGER.

The hardest bit is WALKING THE FUCK AWAY from the things which you are giving your LIFE for, which you damn straight KNOW are not your actual thing.

Walking into the abyss,

and making SPACE, leaving space, then waiting and living and BEING in the space where when you stay the damn course and refuse to give up the ACTUAL thing has to eventually appear.

The hardest bit is ruthlessly and diligently and repeatedly shedding everything which is not pure and unadulterated FUCK yes, in order to make space for fuck yes.

Of course if you simply made it a personal policy to do just that it WOULDN’T BE HARD AT ALL, would it now?

It would just be the rule,
of how you live,
how you do,
and how you ultimately,
become you.

Instead,

You stay, don’t you.

You remain in the FUCKING NOT FUCK YES.

“Oh, maybe it will get better”

“Oh, maybe this IS my dream life and I just can’t see it yet!”

“Oh, maybe I am the problem and I just need to adjust / have a better attitude, blah blah blah”

Of course you’re the fucking problem!

But not like that.

You’re the problem in that you don’t fucking see that the ONLY problem is you’d have NO fucking problems, not on a soul level anyhow, which is all that matters, if you were simply willing to INSIST ON YOUR TRUE FUCK YES, and not compromise a single ounce of a single thing.

When I was a child,

or perhaps a teen,

my mother gave me a piece of advice which has since never left me.

Even at the time I knew that this was important. This was profound. And that she was RIGHT. Perhaps I also knew I would not listen, was not brave enough to, would let fear rule me in this area, for many years, decades, seeming lifetimes, of my life, and perhaps this is why I took it so to heart.

So that eventually I would stop pretending I didn’t remember,

what I always knew.

The advice?

“Whatever you do, do not get into a relationship with a man who is less intelligent than you. You need somebody who is more intelligent than you, and who challenges you”

Every relationship I’ve been in has had its ups and downs as they all do, but they have ALL been tainted from day one with the knowledge that when push comes to shove, I am the leader, and I am the more intelligent one.

And somehow, no matter how hard I tried, I could never get that memory of standing with Mum in her bedroom as a teen as she told me what I KNEW was true.

Maybe I thought it was impossible.

Maybe I just didn’t feel good enough.

Maybe I had lessons I needed to learn with the choices I chose.

Maybe I let fear of being alone dominate the conversation.

^^^ all of this, of course.

But eventually you reach a point, don’t you? WE do at least. The normal peeps … not so much.

For us there is a point, in each area of life where we finally have had enough of our own bullshit. It’s line in the sand time, fuck this shit time, declaration time, and BEING WILLING TO STEP INTO THE ABYSS TIME.

I did it in business, it’s how I broke through to consistent multi-7-figure / year income.

I did it again in business, it’s how I now ONLY call in soulmate fuck yes clients.

I did it AGAIN in business, it’s how I only have soulmate STAFF members and support in all areas.

I did it in my lifestyle, my life, in not EVER having to be ‘under command’ of anyone else.

And eventually I now decided to draw the same damn line in the sand in terms of what I am available for with a man.

When you make that decision, you gotta be willing to hang out in the void.

It is SCARY. 

It’s NOT fun.

It’s NOT flow.

It is VERY tempting to run back out, to settle, sacrifice, compromise, and not in the aligned ways.

DON’T DO THAT SHIT.

You’re better than that.

How long will I stay in the void? AS LONG AS IT TAKES, just like any other area of life. I think you’ll mostly find however, that when you commit FULLY, walk away FULLY, and really fucking MEAN it, that magic happens FAST.

And I wonder –

Don’t you?

WHAT WOULD HAPPEN IF YOU DECIDED TO ACTUALLY HAVE INTEGRITY TO YOUR MOTHERFUCKING SOUL?

To remember what you’ve always known is true for you,

and then to motherfucking live in that space,

and fuck EVERYTHING which is not that.

You can claim the impossible.
You can claim magic.
You can ALWAYS call in exactly what you want, to the dot point, on your terms.

But it ain’t gonna happen while you keep sashaying back and forth between camps, saying you want what you want and then repeatedly not acting accordingly.

Check your fucking actions girl.

You can talk about energy and other-worldly-reality all you like, but if you’re not doing the damn work in the physical including the WORK OF MAKING SPACE it means jack shit.

And you know that.

Today, I urge you –

WALK AWAY FROM THE BITS THAT ARE YOU REPEATEDLY FURTHERING THE WRONG FUCKING BUSINESS AND LIFE.

That’s all!

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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