WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO SURRENDER?

April 1, 2019

It’s a curious dichotomy in the world of manifestation and the getting of what one really wants and longs for, that the way to have everything?

Is to let go of every needing or having anything.

For most entrepreneurs and sworn dream life creators, day after day after week after week after month after year after decade and eventually a lifetime will be spent ‘hell yes-ing’ all over the Internet, and they will even go so far as to solemnly teach and preach on what others should be doing to achieve everything they want –

Filling up space with their same same-y memes and not-even-a-little-bit-unique blog posts and livestreams as they proclaim the Way of the Successful Badass, sternly admonishing their fellow not-even-remotely-there-ers to ‘do the work’, and ‘be disciplined’, and ‘just begin’, and ‘never stop reaching for what you want, you can do it!’, but actually DO it? GET there? Achieve anything of more than very ordinary everyday accomplishment?

Yeah …

Nah.

Not so much.

It’s amusing to me to watch new entrepreneurs appoint themselves as truth-speakers and leaders when they have accomplished precisely FUCK ALL of what they’re sermonising to others to do, but amusement is fleeting when what I really feel is some kind of mixture of sadness and frustration.

Sadness that they REALLY DON’T GET IT.

And frustration that by continuing to just fuck yes and ‘ass-kick’ all over the place without actually having done the damn work to understand where success really comes from, they CONTINUE TO PERPETUATE THE BULLSHIT THAT SIMPLE WORK AND ACTION = OUTCOME.

It does not.

Now, I’m all for doing the WERK, baby, all the work, and you know I love to kick the ass of the 1% within the 1% within the 1% better than ANYONE. I’m also 100% in favour of discipline, purposeful grind, getting off one’s ass and BEGINNING, and all that good shiz-niz.

But if you’re teaching that –

Never mind trying to create your own results with that –

And you don’t realise WHERE SUCCESS ACTUALLY COMES FROM (’cause, y’know … you HAVEN’T ACTUALLY YET DONE THE REAL WORK TO ACHIEVE IT), then what you are doing is operating VERY much in the surface layer.

Yes, it makes a difference to ‘do the work’.

Yes, getting off your ass and starting is often (not always!) better than not.

And for sure, clarity is revealed through momentum rather than waiting for some big reveal.

But results?

Attainment?

Becoming the next level you, and having as well as being able to do everything that goes hand in hand with that?

That shit is far less about DOING than what you think, and then what most of these surface-based messengers would have you believe.

Please,

TRY not to accidentally become one of them.

But most of all –

Know this:

If you’re serious about having everything you dream of, and becoming that higher self you in every possible way, the real work you’ll need to do is going to be to learn about what within you is so damn attached to ‘having’ to have it that your every breath pushes it away.

You’re going to need to find out what within you doesn’t actually want it, or feel safe or ‘allowed’ to have it.

What within you is actually WAY happier without.

^^^ just to name a few things.

And then?

You’re gonna have to let go of all of it.

And realise you don’t need ANY of it in order to be ANY thing.

I repeat:

The way to have EVERYTHING is to let go of needing ANY thing.

Call it annoying, call it contradictory, call it what you want, but you better call it real ’cause that’s what it is.

It gets better, too!

You STILL have to do the work (alllllll the WERK baby!) to get the thing, become the person, do it all, have it all.

Yep, every last little bit of it!

While simultaneously letting go of the idea that you’re doing any of that work for an OUTCOME!

I know.

So fun

Oh, and also, as far as what the ‘work’ actually is, for you, well you’re gonna have to figure that one out like a fabulous puzzle where the creation or no of your dream life is the thing you MIGHT pull together.

Because what works for me ain’t gonna work for you.

And there is CERTAINLY no rule that the ‘work’ means afore-mentioned hustle or indeed any sort of DOING of things.

Mebbe yes mebbe no.

For some people the work that is aligned is a LOT of doing.

For others it’s jack all, and they WILL literally ONLY ‘call it in’.

For most of us it’s a mixture.

We call it in through who we are > and who we are determines what sort action we therefore take on a day to day basis > and so if you were ‘that person’ then what would be aligned for YOU to be doing right now?

Not forgetting that no you’re not DOING anything in order to get or ACHIEVE anything, you’re doing it ’cause of who you are, and you get / have / become ’cause of who you are!

And also ’cause you realised you didn’t need it to be happy, whole, etc.

Simple, right?!

Actually yes, it is

What it comes down to is this:

STOP FUCKING DOING SHIT TO GET AN OUTCOME.

Do it because you can’t NOT.

Do it because you’d be living that way if you already had EVERYTHING.

Decide what the ‘everything’ is you wanna have, ask for and claim it daily in some way, know that it is ‘done’ and ‘yours’, and then THROW THE NEEEEEDDDDDINNNNNGGGGG OF IT IMMEDIATELY OUT THE WINDOW.

Get it?

Got it?

Good.

Now go get everything you dream of.

And don’t forget to do the work