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Live Your Passion

YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN THERE ALREADY BY NOW

Probably one of the most destructive thought-patterns to succumb to, become addicted to, and start to believe in as FACT, is the idea that you should have already been there by now.

What, you’re nearly freakin’ WHAT age and you don’t have your money shit / business shit / love life shit / body shit / parenting shit sorted yet? You haven’t even really BEGUN in some areas, if you’re honest? You got THAT far along and then you somehow fucked it up? A real grown-up / entrepreneur / woman / man / spiritual person would be all OVER that shit, and their hair would look better too! You loser!

Let’s get real here, even if your self-talk isn’t quite so aggressive and bluntly to the point I’ll bet that it DOES go into these sorts of places from time to time and probably more often than what you even realise.

It’s that little moment, where you jump online not quite sure what your intent is for your hustle flow right then and you notice someone who is just showing up so damn SHINY that there’s no point even trying to keep up with them. You barely clock it perhaps, on a conscious level, and yet somewhere within –

It got ya.

Your shoulders sink a little.

You feel the weight of so much damn responsibility, choice, overwhelm, possibility and SHOULD-ness wash over you.

And you just –

Deflate.

Suddenly, instead of getting into the purposeful action which is ALWAYS – but ALWAYS! – available to you, you’re just kinda drifting around the Internet, hoping that the meaning of life will pop up like an annoying freakin’ optin box or pattern-interrupting Facebook ad in front of you, and save you from yourself. Give you hope, an idea, direction, anything!

And you say to yourself – aloud or within or just in the way your cells respond to the focus on what you’ve NOT yet done –

‘I should be so much further along by now. God, how have I allowed ANOTHER day / month / year / decade to pass?!’

*cue extra-large order of cake. Or whatever helps you get a false lift, just for a second.

Or, it’s that time at the begin of the day when you sit down with fresh morning energy and motivation (or at the very least, a damn strong coffee!) and you know that it’s a WHOLE NEW DAY IN WHICH YOU CAN DO ANYTHING, BECOME ANYTHING, CHANGE THE WORLD! You’re ready, you’re geared up, you’re going to kick today’s ASS!

And then you start to think about everything you didn’t do yesterday –

You eye your mounting email inbox with dismay –

You scan over your list of ideas and (again!) shoulds –

And it’s all just SO DAMN MUCH YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY DONE.

To add insult to injury, your pants are too tight, your kid is going through a mega-tantrum phase which you don’t know what to do about, the relationship landscape seems vast and bleak and it’s freakin’ RAINING when you just washed the car!

It’s all too much.

SO much.

And so again, another day passes, in which you kinda do things –

You’re certainly BUSY!

And you definitely end up tired out and done.

But progress? Momentum? Feeling lit up, on fire, proud of yourself and KNOWING you pressed play?

Hmmm … not so much! Not in the way you know it COULD be and continue to promise yourself it WILL be but yet somehow seem to keep on not managing to achieve!

All of this? There’s only one solution.

NOT to get more organised.

NOT to have some kind of uber-productivity or efficiency system or schedule.

Not even to get up earlier / stay up later!

In fact, to begin with at least, not even to just do the damn work and hustle harder!

ALL you need, to start with, is to eliminate the idea that you could or should have done or been anything else by now. How the frick does this help you anyway? It takes you out of the now, you are by definition NOT present in this moment right here when you’re focused on what else you think it should have been, and you are literally DWELLING on and therefore calling in and creating more of the feeling of not being good enough / worthy / far enough along.

The truth about getting to the top – the top of course being pretty much wherever you know YOU are meant to be and will be, when you say yes to soul and living all out in alignment for YOU – is that it’s entirely an inner game.

It’s a game of resilience, tenacity, determination, a little (okay a lot!) of what most would consider delusion, and a game of relentlessly moving forward like you KNOW that that next level is your damn destiny and a CERTAIN one, at that.

The RESILIENCE thang, if you didn’t realise, is not so much about doing what needs to be done, and is very much about not listening to any of the shit that will STOP you from doing what needs to be done.

Aka, voices in your head, begone!

To move forward, to do the damn thing of being the damn thing, you must be disciplined and RELENTLESS about pushing this sort of destructive self-talk aside.

Not helpful; fuck off!

The very SECOND you feel something, whether it comes from inside of you or from some other fucker, deflate you, even a LITTLE bit, you need to shove that asshole right back to where it came from.

NOT TODAY SATAN.

And then you go BACK to purpose, BACK to certainty, BACK to self-belief, BACK to the knowledge that what you feel and see inside of you is real and that you ALWAYS have what it takes and are ALWAYS where you need to be.

Why would you argue against that? What’s the possible point of that? NONE! So stop doing it.

At your core, you KNOW you have what it takes, you KNOW you are worthy, you KNOW you are powerful beyond measure. But don’t get sucked into a lie that says that to LIVE these things you need to be FEELING them. No! Those who create success beyond measure in all areas (true success; soul success) don’t FEEL it all that time! They just choose to ACT from core, from soul, from God, from higher self, from truth.

Even when they’re not feeling it.

ESPECIALLY when they’re not feeling it.

And, surprise surprise, the action of being the damn person you know you ARE –

Is what creates it.

And the feelings to go with it.

But, no matter how far along you are, the Devil’s job will RELENTLESSLY be to sway you from purpose. Don’t beat yourself up therefore, when you wake up, or sit down, and again you’re not FEELING it, and sabotage says ‘don’t bother, there’s no point, you should have BEEN there already, you’re not worthy’.

It’s not about you.

It’s just how resistance works.

And your job? Your only job?

BE MORE FUCKING RELENTLESS THAN THAT.

That’s all.

And that you can always do.

So get to damn well doing it 😉

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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