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Live Your Passion

YOU SHOULD HAVE BEEN THERE ALREADY BY NOW

Probably one of the most destructive thought-patterns to succumb to, become addicted to, and start to believe in as FACT, is the idea that you should have already been there by now.

What, you’re nearly freakin’ WHAT age and you don’t have your money shit / business shit / love life shit / body shit / parenting shit sorted yet? You haven’t even really BEGUN in some areas, if you’re honest? You got THAT far along and then you somehow fucked it up? A real grown-up / entrepreneur / woman / man / spiritual person would be all OVER that shit, and their hair would look better too! You loser!

Let’s get real here, even if your self-talk isn’t quite so aggressive and bluntly to the point I’ll bet that it DOES go into these sorts of places from time to time and probably more often than what you even realise.

It’s that little moment, where you jump online not quite sure what your intent is for your hustle flow right then and you notice someone who is just showing up so damn SHINY that there’s no point even trying to keep up with them. You barely clock it perhaps, on a conscious level, and yet somewhere within –

It got ya.

Your shoulders sink a little.

You feel the weight of so much damn responsibility, choice, overwhelm, possibility and SHOULD-ness wash over you.

And you just –

Deflate.

Suddenly, instead of getting into the purposeful action which is ALWAYS – but ALWAYS! – available to you, you’re just kinda drifting around the Internet, hoping that the meaning of life will pop up like an annoying freakin’ optin box or pattern-interrupting Facebook ad in front of you, and save you from yourself. Give you hope, an idea, direction, anything!

And you say to yourself – aloud or within or just in the way your cells respond to the focus on what you’ve NOT yet done –

‘I should be so much further along by now. God, how have I allowed ANOTHER day / month / year / decade to pass?!’

*cue extra-large order of cake. Or whatever helps you get a false lift, just for a second.

Or, it’s that time at the begin of the day when you sit down with fresh morning energy and motivation (or at the very least, a damn strong coffee!) and you know that it’s a WHOLE NEW DAY IN WHICH YOU CAN DO ANYTHING, BECOME ANYTHING, CHANGE THE WORLD! You’re ready, you’re geared up, you’re going to kick today’s ASS!

And then you start to think about everything you didn’t do yesterday –

You eye your mounting email inbox with dismay –

You scan over your list of ideas and (again!) shoulds –

And it’s all just SO DAMN MUCH YOU SHOULD HAVE ALREADY DONE.

To add insult to injury, your pants are too tight, your kid is going through a mega-tantrum phase which you don’t know what to do about, the relationship landscape seems vast and bleak and it’s freakin’ RAINING when you just washed the car!

It’s all too much.

SO much.

And so again, another day passes, in which you kinda do things –

You’re certainly BUSY!

And you definitely end up tired out and done.

But progress? Momentum? Feeling lit up, on fire, proud of yourself and KNOWING you pressed play?

Hmmm … not so much! Not in the way you know it COULD be and continue to promise yourself it WILL be but yet somehow seem to keep on not managing to achieve!

All of this? There’s only one solution.

NOT to get more organised.

NOT to have some kind of uber-productivity or efficiency system or schedule.

Not even to get up earlier / stay up later!

In fact, to begin with at least, not even to just do the damn work and hustle harder!

ALL you need, to start with, is to eliminate the idea that you could or should have done or been anything else by now. How the frick does this help you anyway? It takes you out of the now, you are by definition NOT present in this moment right here when you’re focused on what else you think it should have been, and you are literally DWELLING on and therefore calling in and creating more of the feeling of not being good enough / worthy / far enough along.

The truth about getting to the top – the top of course being pretty much wherever you know YOU are meant to be and will be, when you say yes to soul and living all out in alignment for YOU – is that it’s entirely an inner game.

It’s a game of resilience, tenacity, determination, a little (okay a lot!) of what most would consider delusion, and a game of relentlessly moving forward like you KNOW that that next level is your damn destiny and a CERTAIN one, at that.

The RESILIENCE thang, if you didn’t realise, is not so much about doing what needs to be done, and is very much about not listening to any of the shit that will STOP you from doing what needs to be done.

Aka, voices in your head, begone!

To move forward, to do the damn thing of being the damn thing, you must be disciplined and RELENTLESS about pushing this sort of destructive self-talk aside.

Not helpful; fuck off!

The very SECOND you feel something, whether it comes from inside of you or from some other fucker, deflate you, even a LITTLE bit, you need to shove that asshole right back to where it came from.

NOT TODAY SATAN.

And then you go BACK to purpose, BACK to certainty, BACK to self-belief, BACK to the knowledge that what you feel and see inside of you is real and that you ALWAYS have what it takes and are ALWAYS where you need to be.

Why would you argue against that? What’s the possible point of that? NONE! So stop doing it.

At your core, you KNOW you have what it takes, you KNOW you are worthy, you KNOW you are powerful beyond measure. But don’t get sucked into a lie that says that to LIVE these things you need to be FEELING them. No! Those who create success beyond measure in all areas (true success; soul success) don’t FEEL it all that time! They just choose to ACT from core, from soul, from God, from higher self, from truth.

Even when they’re not feeling it.

ESPECIALLY when they’re not feeling it.

And, surprise surprise, the action of being the damn person you know you ARE –

Is what creates it.

And the feelings to go with it.

But, no matter how far along you are, the Devil’s job will RELENTLESSLY be to sway you from purpose. Don’t beat yourself up therefore, when you wake up, or sit down, and again you’re not FEELING it, and sabotage says ‘don’t bother, there’s no point, you should have BEEN there already, you’re not worthy’.

It’s not about you.

It’s just how resistance works.

And your job? Your only job?

BE MORE FUCKING RELENTLESS THAN THAT.

That’s all.

And that you can always do.

So get to damn well doing it 😉

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!