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Success Mindset

ARE YOU PROUD OF HOW YOU’RE RAISING YOURSELF?

You know when you write or say something sometimes, and it means one thing, and all of a sudden you just come to a cold hard STOP, because you’re hit with what it’s ACTUALLY meant to mean, for you?

I think that life is continually giving us messages, signs, feedback, ‘way-pointers’, HELPING us, and making it (if we would actually pay attention!) EASY for us to get what we want and what we are destined for.

Problem is … of course … most people don’t listen. Me? I’ve noticed that since I consciously made the commitment to ALWAYS listen, best as I can, and always FOLLOW, best as I can, what comes through me and from within me, well?

Life just gets easier and easier, flow-ier and flow-ier, and better and better. In all ways!

When I say yes to my soul …
Life says yes to me.

So, basically, the ‘how’ of my entire business and life is –

I say yes to my soul!

Even better than how killer the RESULTS are from living this way is, you literally never have to think about anything! I mean, you can think for enjoyment and growth, or whatever you choose, of course 

But there’s no requirement to think for reasons of trying to get it RIGHT.

It’s always right
When you follow what’s inside

EVEN WHEN IT FEELS SILLY OR SCARY, by the way. Just on a side note!

So yes. Life, God, our higher self, are all continually working with us to SUPPORT us, and show us where to direct our energy and attention, also our actions.

I saw this again clearly this morning, as I wrote a simple statement in my morning introspection. I was writing a lot of affirmations, I do this every day, along with other forms of tuning in via my journaling, and out popped the sentence:

“I am proud of how I am raising my children”

YES. So much yes to stepping deeper and deeper into THAT choice, and truth!

But what HIT me from it was this –

How about yourself?

And I wrote:

“I am proud of how I’m raising mySELF”

I don’t know how this statement hits you, but for me it felt profound. What if we put the same amount of import onto how we continue to grow and evolve our OWN souls, as what we as parents (or even if you’re not a parent, I’m sure you feel what I’m saying here), do when it comes to how we raise and guide the little humans to whom we’ve been entrusted.

I was going to say young souls, but there’s many times I’m quite certain that the souls of my children are far older and wiser than me!

I think that when it comes to our own growth and development, we DO know it matters.

But when it comes to raising a child … there is an understanding of the RESPONSIBILITY of this. There can be fear attached to it … you don’t want to screw this person up! And then, hopefully, as you grow into deeper understanding of what it means to parent, fear is released as you realise you CAN’T screw it or anybody in it up, so long as you follow what’s inside.

For me as a parent, I know and trust that the answer is to ALWAYS follow what’s inside.

For example: it was aligned for me to put my oldest into conventional schooling 2 years ago, and I’ve loved the school, the process, all of it. 

And now all of a sudden I find – hmmm. I think we’re done with school. So, I LISTEN, always, to those voices and direction. Time to shift. So, we’ll shift, and relatively fast too, as always.

The thing is –

The way I now parent is the same way I do move forward in my own life.

Listen to inner and upper guidance.
Follow without question.
As fast as possible.
All the while releasing the how AND the outcome.
What I noticed though as the DIFFERENCE, when I thought about this idea of ‘raising myself’ versus raising my children, and being a good Mum, is that the idea of raising my SELF felt less important. There was that small part of me, perhaps left over from earlier years, which actually felt like “well yes, that matters, and it’s all very well, but you know – when we can GET to it, when it’s convenient”.Or something like that.Whereas when I think about my children … when something comes through me that I KNOW is the next step … such as shifting to wild and free ‘school of life-ing’ … I feel a tremendous sense of urgency and importance. Not in a FEAR way. More that it is truly IMPRESSED UPON ME that this is what must happen, and so now I will begin to move heaven and earth to ALLOW it to happen, rapidly.Which is to say – I’ll decide, and then it will be done.No moving of mountains required, at least not in a PUSH sense!

And I wondered –

What would happen in MY life, and how I’m evolving, growing, shifting, with business, love, life –

If, when something came through me, I truly saw it as SERIOUSLY FUCKING IMPORTANT.

As a Mum, I’m not prepared to fuck around. If I know something is for the good of my kids I’m not going to DELAY on it. With every day, they’re growing too rapidly to even comprehend! I understand on a deep soul level how important each phase of that growth is, and that the ‘soup of life’ they’re immersed into IN that phase be the right one, the ALIGNED one.

With myself …

I do understand.
I do get it.
And I do (obviously) take rapid and continual action!

But yet … meh.

What’s the difference if I do something at 38 or 39 years old? It’s much the same age …

What does it matter if I go all in today or tomorrow? Today I have things planned …

I’m not saying these are my direct conscious thoughts 🙂 actually I preach the opposite of THAT sort of thinking, all the time!

But yet it’s still there.
I notice it.
An undercurrent, saying –

“She’ll be right mate. No need to rush.”

So today here is what I want to say to you, for me and for you both:

What if you took every message from your soul seriously fucking seriously?

What if you were spurred into IMMEDIATE action, when you were guided to walk away from something, or lean towards?

What if it were CRITICAL to you, and non-negotiable, that when called to answer the question “am I proud of how I am raising my SELF”, the answer could only ever be a resounding of COURSE?!

And what if you started now?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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