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Success Mindset

COACH YOURSELF INTO BELIEVING IN YOURSELF

If you’re going to get to where you really want to go, and know you must be, you’ll need to get in the habit of coaching yourself into self belief, and FAST.

Let’s get real here –

You’ve already fucked around for far longer that you would have thought possible, you’re horrified at how much time has actually passed and you’re STILL talking about going all in. Showing up every day with this constant lurking feeling hanging all over you and reminding you that THIS AIN’T WHAT SHOWING UP IS MEANT TO LOOK LIKE.

And while you can and perhaps should get those soul aligned mentor peeps in your corner, a partner or friends who believe in you and all that shiz, you DEFINITELY deserve to be surrounded by badasses who lift and celebrate you, at the same time?

It’s kind of really on YOU.

It’s on YOU that you don’t feel ready, and so you use this as a reason to delay.

It’s on YOU that you’re scared you don’t really have what it takes, that you’re not actually good enough, and so you’re not putting your foot to the pedal and just moving forward.

It’s on YOU that when fear has you by the short and curlies and you feel overwhelmed and confused you once again get flustered, flounder, lose the way you’ve barely even found.

It’s on YOU that when you connect in to how much money you need to live your dream life –

Or how far you are right now from having the systems you want in your biz in place –

That you let it then sadden and contract you, push you down and make you feel small, and zap all of your energy so that you still don’t DO the damn thing.

It is ALL –
100% of it –
Yes ALL of it –

Fully and squarely on YOU. And at some point you’re going to need to stop asking the internet how to get over your fears and doubts and you’re going to have to GET THE FUCK OVER IT YOURSELF.

What, you think that every person who did something amazing somehow first got to a point of superhuman confidence and certainty and iron-clad willpower, they literally had nothing holding them back anymore and so they just woke up one morning and knew they were unstoppable?

Well, they may well have known they were unstoppable!! But that went ALONGSIDE still having ALL the human doubts and fears and resistances and ‘who am I to’ bullshit that oh, oh, guess what?

EVERY SINGLE HUMAN HAS.

So maybe they wanted it more, maybe they did have some sort of blessed spiritual support system or next level guidance fall into their lap, maybe a vestal virgin came down from heaven above and took them on a journey to meet God himself, who then handed them a gold-embossed scroll and a single perfect rose, told them it’s time and then kicked them swiftly up the bootay as well just to get ’em started.

Yeah, and? Even if somebody else DID have some sort of special circumstances going on which you wish would show up for you, SO WHAT? In the end it’s not going to matter what was supposedly available to you, it’s going to matter what you did or didn’t choose.

Show up for your damn life yeah or nah? That’s all it comes down to girl.

Insist on being who you’re meant to be and refuse to accept anything else, yeah or nah? There’s no in between.

Run like the wind towards purpose, and leave no stone unturned in the quest to be fully you, YEAH OR NAH BITCH?

Your excuses are not valid.

And here’s what else, talking about what’s AVAILABLE to you –

Uhhhhhh, how do I put this clearly?

ALL OF IT.

You want more support, to be shown the way, to receive certain guidance, guess what? You only have the entire cosmos and God himself at your disposal! Not to mention your own higher self.

Plain and simple, everything you can conceive of IS possible, it’s possible for you, and it’s possible NOW.

You don’t have it, NO girl, it’s not because of blah and blah and blah-di-blah other made up sad sack nonsense which you’re trying to make it about. It’s NOT because you’re overwhelmed or confused or don’t know how. It’s NOT because it’s so far away that you can’t even start. That is not a thing! Stop making it a thing!

It is ONLY you didn’t choose it.

But but but I I I help help help, NO.

Just stop it.

Remove emotion.
Do the fucking work.

Remove emotion.
Take the first step.

Remove emotion.
Decide what first step you’re gonna take anyway if you can’t first figure out what the first step is!

Remove emotion.
Keep going.

Remove emotion.
Trust in the process.

Remove emotion.
WHEN IT HURTS PUSH HARDER.

What else do you actually need here? The ONLY valid answer is nothing. No matter how real your shit is, it is still simply a choice one way or the other to let it block you.

So,

While I get how FUCKING full on it can feel to pull yourself up out of the pits of despair and woe-is-me-ness,

and I know how real it feels to be SO far from where you want to be or find it all just so complex,

how is it possibly going to serve you to keep spinning that same sad old tune?

Yeah.

It will feel messy as fuck when you just start showing up for your truth ANYWAY.

You will definitely fail! Blah blah there is no fail, whatever! Yes, you will have shit not work out. You will fall on your face. You will feel embarrassed, self conscious, exposed. You will get frustrated. You may end up with your back against the wall more times or for longer than you thought a person could bear, or should have to.

AND YOU WILL KEEP GOING.

What other choice do you actually have here, and why, for the love of God, are you trying to GIVE yourself one?

In the end, it’s very black and white –

You did the damn thing of being the damn thing, or you did not.

So yeah or nah babe, which is it gonna be?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/