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Success Mindset

Do it NOW … No Matter WHAT!

Make Space, Do It Now, Start the Thing, Do it Now, Get Uncomfortable, Do it Now, Follow Your Heart, Do it NOW … No Matter WHAT!

Do you ever feel as though we really just have the same conversation over and over again?

I don’t just mean me to you (or you to me, if we’re doin’ that already?!), I also mean me to me and you to YOU.

Me, in my head, every freakin’ day, for example:

“I need to step up! Today is the day! I HAVE to finally DO this. No more excuses!”

On the one hand, sure, I get a lot done, I have done a lot already, I’m good enough, I am enough, my hair looks good and people like me! I know

But also? There is SO much more I wanna do, or more releveantly, MUST do, am being commanded to do, from within, and sometimes I feel like it’s EATING ME ALIVE that I’ve not yet DONE so. You know?

Sometimes when I sit down to write my morning message to you – like, right now, this! – my mind tries to talk me out of it.

“You’ve already SPOKEN about that, Kat … like – a million fucking times! Are you REALLY gonna talk once again about pressing fucking play, doing the work, being the next level version of you, going ALL the way in, now?”

And my answer, mostly ALWAYS, when my mind tries to talk me out of doing the work, when resistance rears its head and tempts me to hold back, play small, back off, PAUSE from fear, is simple:

Why yes.
Thank you for asking.
But yes.
Thank you for asking

Because here is what I know for sure.

As I sit here in the members lounge at the gym, a little early for my PT session, so, as always, making anywhere I AM into my own personal office, my head unreasonably sore when I didn’t even DRINK or anything last night, my body apparently just cleansing itself from God knows what for the fun of it, meaning that I feel kinda off and NOT in the zone, NOT really like writing –

Here is what I know for sure:

The magic appears when you show up daily.
NOT trying to write or sell or create or unleash the ‘best thing ever that gets you the result’.
Instead just showing UP.
Day in, and day out.
For your message.
For your art.
For your tribe.
For your SELF.

I’ve written and created and otherwise unleashed some AMAZING fucking content over the years.

I’ve written things that have brought me to tears, given me goosebumps, literally sent chills up my spine at the magic in the words.

I’ve had livestreams which have been LIFE-changing to people, so deeply powerful where they in the message and divine truth coming through.

I’ve created programs which have COMPLETELY transformed participants, to where they all of a sudden started to allow in things they’d been holding unwittingly at arms length for YEARS.

I’ve showed up in ways that have been BEYOND hilarious … crazy … the most fun ever … TOTAL fucking flow.

And I’ve made millions and millions of dollars online.

“Yay Kat”, I hear you thinking. “Alright already, what’s the point, or do you just want a gold star and a fucking trophy or something?!”

Here’s the point, and here’s what you might not think about; what a lot of people don’t consider –

NONE of this would have, COULD have, happened, had I not made a decision, in 2008, when I was just launching my first ‘real’ blog, a few years after starting to experiment online, that no matter what I would just keep going. No matter what I would show UP. Be consistent. Make SPACE, for something to develop.

I didn’t come online to be an internet marketer.

It wasn’t my goal to make money online.

I wasn’t THINKING about building an empire!

And I had no idea I’d end up like THIS – all loud and ranty and red-haired and badass and shit.

But I did know I had a dream. I did know I was born for more. I did know there was something INSIDE of me which wanted out, which HAD to come out. And I did just fucking BELIEVE I was going to live an extraordinary life. Do something amazing. Make a fuckload of money. Impact a fuckload of people. And maybe?

Even change the world.

I don’t know what it was inside of me, nearly 10 years ago, after fumbling around with blogging and building my own websites for a year or two, that made me so decisive that I would show up.

But I can remember it clearly, like it was yesterday. I remember saying to myself, the day I launched “Body Incredible”, August 2008, my first ‘real’ blog, saying ALOUD to myself over a glass of Austin’s Shiraz (amazing!) and while eating roast duck with spinach and cherries at my then-partner’s incredible restaurant –

“I have no idea where this will all go. But I do believe it will go somewhere. I believe I am born for more. And I believe that if I just keep going and be CONSISTENT, no matter WHAT, then something will happen”.

I’m not making this up. I really said that. And I really meant no matter WHAT.

No matter whether I feel like it.
No matter whether I know how.
No matter whether it’s working.

You see, I’m a believer. I always have been. You too, for sure, or you wouldn’t be here! But, being a believer is not enough. You DO have to show up. It DOES have to be daily in some form. You MUST listen, when you receive guidance from within. And you MUST, repeatedly, YES fucking daily, put purpose ahead of your own drama and bullshit.

Because I made this decision at the start, I was able to keep going when my subscriber base didn’t grow by ONE PERSON for 18 months. EVERY DAY I kept going. Would you do that? Do people do that? Do people realise I didn’t just wake up like this?

No matter what.

Because I meant it, I was able to keep going when launch after launch failed, for years it seemed, 2 people buying, or NO people buying. The embarassment AND the frustration.

No matter what.

Because I meant it, I continued on when I ended up over 100k in debt and nearly bankrupt and couldn’t even buy COFFEE, and it just went on … and on … and ON … for months!

Would you do that?
Have you?
Comment! Let’s honour your fucking resilience because FEW WILL DO WHAT IT TAKES.

No matter what.

Because I MEANT it, and I knew I was born for more, I showed up for YEARS feeling disconnected from my purpose and ‘not knowing how’ to make money doing what I love, call in my soul tribe, really break through.

I just kept going.
No matter what.
And I just kept making space.
No matter what.

Here’s the thing; my point –

You can be a ‘researcher’; a wannabe who spends their life waiting to be ready, waiting to press play, buying into a bullshit story that they CAN’T yet, or repeatedly going to bed at night without doing the thing –

Or you can make a decision that from this day forward, you’re the person who does the fucking thing.


It’s one or the other though baby.



Your choice.

No matter what.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.