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Live Your Passion

HOW TO SCARE YOUR SOULMATE PEOPLE AWAY

Everybody likes to say, I’ve been known to say it myself over and over again, and also to sagely affirm it TO myself and my besties, a nice little reassuring cup-of-warm-tea-to-the-soul reminder to make us all feel schnuggly and warm –

“You can’t fuck it up with your soulmate people!”

Ahhh, feels so good to hear, doesn’t it?

So safe!

So COSY making. Vibes of rainbows and unicorns and marshmallows, oh my!

And it’s a lovely THEORY, it’s also a theory that makes sense and is indeed real and true, or CAN be, but let’s just step back for a little minute and examine what it is about this idea that makes it so valid.

It’s all hinged on the idea that WHEN YOU JUST BE YOU, it’s not possible to fuck it up with your soulmate people.

Even if you say stuff that is wildly off script, as far as whatever is considered appropriate client / date / friend / whoever interaction –

Even if you are offensive, or polarising –

Even if you embarrass yourself –

Certainly if you reveal the most raw and vulnerable parts of yourself –

And so on!

The CONCEPT which we’re all so attracted to, because it IS a breath of fresh air to think that we don’t have to worry about how to show up, in order to have the relationships we want, is that there is NO PART OF OUR TRUE SELF which can scare a soulmate person away, that no matter what we do or don’t do, the connection is there, and it’s one which is unbreakable!

Again –

ALL VERY FUCKING TRUE.

Yay!

But.

But.

Just a little bit of a big ass freaking but!

THIS ONLY WORKS IF YOU ARE INDEED BEING FULLY YOU.

#omg #gamechanger #fuck #duhgirlyoualreadyknowthat (but are you living it?)

Here’s the thing, okay –

There are no levels of being fully you.

It’s a black and white sort of thing, you can’t be ‘half’ being fully you, or kinda, or almost. It’s like being Christian, or pregnant. These are finite things. You are or you are not, which is it?

Most of us, when it comes to the ‘being fully who we are‘ thang, nail it better in some areas than others. So maybe you feel like you’re TOTALLY you with your closest friends and fam (I would hope so!), but not QUITE with your business associates, or potential clients … maybe a little more so with your longer term clients … and then dating is a whole ‘nother game entirely … never mind the ‘you’ who shows up when you, let’s say, go to an event or any sort of gathering where there are people you want to impress, or be accepted or ‘seen’ by.

Random personalities and wildly differing versions of you all over the place!

Think about it –

The areas of your life where you are easily and ‘fully’ you are the ones where things flow the easiest, and it just works!

You feel safe.
You feel seen.
You feel loved.
You fully EXPRESS.
And, the better it gets the better it gets and keeps on getting!

Whereas the ones where you hold back, either because you think you have to, it’s professional or ‘right’, or because you’re scared of something, isn’t it true that things feel uphill?!

It’s like walking on eggshells in many regards –

Decisions feel sticky and tricky and drawn out and a bit painful to make, and even once made come fraught with worries and ‘what ifs’ –

And, no matter how ‘pretty good’ it gets, you never seem to QUITE have what you want, and to top it off, everytime it gets close you go into some kind of panic-response, however mild, about whether or not you’re gonna be able to keep it, or ever were worthy of it in the first place!

Talk about exhausting. Yet this is how most people live in MOST PARTS OF THEIR LIFE. No wonder so many driven folks carry around continual or frequent anxiety, mild or worse depression, nervousness, and find themselves turning to various forms of numbing or pushing down or bingeing in order to ‘cope’!

Clearly there are multiple reasons to QUIT BEING ANYTHING OTHER THAN ALL OF YOU.

But here is perhaps one of the greatest of all –

Despite what they say, you ABSOLUTELY CAN SCREW IT UP WITH YOUR SOULMATE PEOPLE, in that if you are being a filtered you, a masked you, a careful you, aka NOT you, then they won’t even SEE you.

And while the connection might, and does, exist already energetically, because we were ALWAYS bonded to our soulmate peeps, that doesn’t mean you will ever draw on it in the physical realm.

In fact, you can very easily spend your entire life NEVER calling or allowing in soulmate lovers, clients, or even friends in the physical realm simply because you never give in to fully being you.

You might know, indeed believe with every cell in your body, that you are meant to mentor THIS sort of woman –

Date THAT sort of man –

Have THESE sorts of friends –

You feel it, you believe it, you walk around saying ‘it’s done!’ –

But it will NEVER be done if you continue to choose to be a safe ass scaredy-cat version of you.

See, the people who are YOUR badass soul people, they don’t do ordinary.

They don’t do what is EXPECTED.

And they don’t magnetize to fear.

DO YOU, at your core?

So why would they?

So here’s the thing, yeah?

You can have it all, now, on your terms, and then some. YOU WERE BORN FOR IT, and ‘it’ absolutely includes the ONLY fuck yes relationships you long for, and know are divined!

You can have it with ease, also, and where you NEVER need to worry about screwing it up. You get to just let it all hang out, every damn day, say and think and share and show up with exactly whatever the fuck pops out of you. The crazier or messier or more random or just bold in your face audaciously YOU, the better!

But there is a catch, or a condition, if you will. It’s simple, it’s to the point, it’s actually just a damn choice, and not hard at all once you realise that, it’s a thing to act FROM, and now, not towards, and it’s also something that most people will NEVER EVER DO.

Fear got ’em by the short and curlies long ago, and they kind of like it.

The thing is, you’d have to be a next level idiot to believe that it’s possible to have it all, on your terms, by being fully you, if you refuse to be fully you.

So today –

Look around at the areas where you hide out, play small, MASK, refuse to be who and what you know you ultimately WILL be, as that most expressed badass confident AF version of you –

AND THEN FUCKING BE IT NOW.

Or quit moaning that it’s so damn hard to get great clients, a great man, great friends, or a great life.

You’re in the drivers seat.
Always have been.
And the road you’re traveling down is the exact fucking one you decided to be on.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/