The reason so many things feel hard to attain, or are running from you, is because you view them as things you have to get to, or do enough for, and that is not fundamentally how it works.

Not fundamentally how it works for YOU, or for any of us who are tapped in to doing life in a way that follows soul.

The thing with being this kind of magic-maker and creator is that once you’ve said yes to a different paradigm – the OUTCOME based paradigm – you’re going to find it very very difficult to try and pretend you don’t know.

This means that every time you start thinking that the answer is to do more, do enough, GET somewhere, and then try to motivate yourself down that path, it will feel like pushing shit up a hill and will just get harder and harder to even try to begin. Why? Because your soul flat out knows this is not required, and not only that but it is ACTIVELY counter-productive and a straight out sabotage.

Because fundamentally how it works? And what your soul is waiting for your slow-movin’ ass to get back to? Is that you choose your choices. You get the outcome because – you chose it. And the only thing you’re meant to do, post-choice, is come back to the moment and go fully into IT.

So when you try to get there … and you push yourself harder and harder to do or be enough … instead of simply locking in your choice, handing it TF over, and then coming in to whatever you are meant to BE in … you literally push everything away, and make it harder, nigh on impossible, to achieve or be on top of. Because your soul understands that THIS IS NOT THE WAY. Not YOUR way. Not EVER.

The worst thing is, it becomes a vicious cycle, in which the lower your motivation or desire drops, the more you draw on that OLD paradigm of trying to summon up even MORE pushing or ‘do effort’.

And babe … once done with the DO paradigm, ALWAYS done with the do paradigm. Your soul simply ain’t going back there.

Don’t get this confused with not doing the WORK, you are ALWAYS gonna be the person who does the work. Does whatever it takes! You’ll do more than 1000 other peeps put together, before breakfast and with your eyes closed, when you’re in that flow. And most of the time besides! But the point is – the place it comes from.


When we forget who we are, and revert to this, we are, quite simply, operating out of sync with our own soul and truth. No wonder we never get ‘there’, and every day seems harder than the last to get on top of! The ‘there’ you’re seeking doesn’t EXIST at the end of your ‘do’. It exists in your choices. In the fact that you remembered, – ‘oh yes. I CHOOSE. I say YES. I decide it is DONE. And then I get on with the merry job of just being me, but FULLY’.

Don’t kid yourself: being fully you is a responsibility, and there are actions attached to it. Just don’t get ’em confused with actions you do to try and get somewhere or be something. You DO know what the actions are, the ones YOU should be doing, and WOULD be doing right now, if you knew that whatever you CHOOSE is what shows up for you. You know what it would look like right now to drop into responsibility to what is IN you, and to start playing in that energetic channel where all the outcomes cannot NOT show up. You know! And you know that largely this revolves around being willing to take time and space – daily – for, well, whatever it is YOU are meant to be taking time and space for.

For an outcome? No, bitch! Haven’t you been listening?! Outcomes get CHOSEN! No, for its OWN sake. And also with the knowing that when you do it this way … it IS the gateway, not only to the next steps or knowledge you seek, but truly … to everything.

So … quit moaning that you don’t have what you want. That you can’t keep up. That you’re struggling to know the moves to make, or you’re lost in a sea of endless overwhelm. When you repeatedly refuse to simply be the person –

who is being the God damn person,

and choosing how life shows up for her.

You wanna play a game of imagining it’s any way aside from this?