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Success Mindset

PATIENCE IS THE SHORTCUT

I know you want everything now, you want it at once, where the fuck IS it, so help me God, I’ll I’ll I’ll … I’ll, okay FINE, I’ll say PLEASE God, but seriously –

Seriously!

I’ve been waiting so long
And where the fuck is it
And what is actually HAPPENING in the world that I should have to wait this long
I’ve been doing the WORK, and I don’t even just mean the work, I mean the WERK, beatch!

I know you think it’s ridiculous
And offensive
And just a little INSOLENT

Of life to not serve you up your everythang

When you show up each day
When you hustle your sweet little tushie off
When you check your list
Check it twice
And then damn well mark everything OFF the bloody thing

You do more than everyone!
(okay, well, fine, if you’re honest you definitely flake out now and then … ahem … no need to actually figure out HOW often … and you may not be being unapologetically ALL of you … it’s possible)
And you know your message is more POWERFUL than most of these so-and-so’s out there

You’ve even got fancy headshots and landing pages and a website, oh my!

^^^ or whatever it is you wanna sub in if what you’re thinking about that you should HAVE by now is the hot body you want, the man you need, the lifestyle you damn deserve, the freedom, the fun, the flow, WHATEVER it is.

Yes.

You do the things.
And you have, to the best of your ability, made yourself into the thing.

But when you’re still not there.

And the days are so long.
And the nights at times so blatant a reminder of what you do NOT have or are not.
And you feel FROZEN IN OVERWHELM at all there still is to do, and where should you where should you where should you start BEFORE that –

Can I tell you what the answer is, and indeed always was?

Stop.
Press play? No! Press fucking pause.
Stop.
Wait.
Do nothing. Do NOTHING? Yes. Do nothing.

Close the laptop.
Delete the list (bet you don’t dare!).
At the very least put it aside.
As much as you can, discontinue communication with the world for a bit.
And?

WAIT.

Wait for you know not what but you damn sure will know when you know!

Wait until it builds.
And builds.
And builds.
And you let go.
And let go.
And let go.
And bit by bit, the things you thought you HAD to deal with or get done, or that you considered to be TRULY terrible and treacherous, SO bad, and truly valid of ALL THE WORRY AND FEAR, they kind of,

Sort of,

Just fade away.

You still feel maybe a little bit of guilt.
A skerrick of fear.
A flicker of worry, licking up your legs.
Telling you that you can’t stop, you can’t afford to, the answer is to do more, always MORE.

But still you hold.
And hold.
And hold.
And you know you DAMN well won’t fold.

Because you understand how this shit works –

PATIENCE.
is the shortcut.

When you’re scared, patience has the power to dispel that fear. To DI-spell it. To rid you of the spell it has over you, because that’s what it IS.

YOU, the real you, the truest you, YOU DON’T LIVE IN FEAR BABY.

FEAR is not the real you.
It is not part of the core of you.
And it DOES NOT NEED TO HAVE A VOICE.

But here is what else –

You think that the way to ‘get there’, and be ‘done’, and ‘get ahead’, and oh, ‘keep up’, that it’s in the doing and the pushing and the insisting and that if you just throw enough SOMETHING at it all you can just bypass the growth which is the damn work. The becoming, you know?

Well, I don’t put those things in quote marks for no reason. They’re not REAL. And certainly not where you need to be giving your focus.

The REALITY which most people will never be brave enough to live into, is that success comes from learning to pause.

It’s in the breathing in in that moment of doing nothing.
In the exhale as you realise you have finally grown into being the person who does not act until she is certain.
Who is more than chill AF about waiting til said certainty shows up.
Who fully believes and TRUSTS that the way will be shown to her, that she has nothing to rush for or become frazzled about, because she is ALREADY ENOUGH AND WHOLE NOW.

The greatest discipline you can cultivate, is the discipline of NOW being the person you one day hope to be.

And that bitch?

Is patient as fuck.

While everybody else is running around like frenetic chooks with their heads cut off, wearing out ALL their energy and spirits and meanwhile getting dizzy as fuck so they don’t even know which way up they are anymore or WHO they are (if they ever knew!), SHE is in the centre,

Gazing out into the future

Eyes clearly on the horizon

Connected to God and self and soul

And waiting
Knowing
Trusting
SURRENDERED TO THE NOW

And one by one as everybody starts to crumble and fall around her, weary to where they no longer can EVEN, she feels something.

A buzz
A tickle
An impossible to ignore little piece of biofeedback from within

The sensation growing stronger
The pressure increasing, in a way that is ONLY exciting and fuck yes
The knowing coming upon her

Until suddenly
with NO warning to anyone outside of her, and only that very little bit to herself,

In ONE FELL SWOOP SHE ACTIVATES ENTIRE FUCKING WORLDS

And as everyone around her looks on in shock at how the FUCK she came out of nowhere and just did THAT –

She calmly blows off any little bits of residue which have settled on her from the tornado she IS

Shakes her hair

Rolls her shoulders back like the regal fucking being she is

AND MOSEYS ON HER WAY.

And that’s all there is to say about that.

Only question is?

Who you gonna be.

That’s all!

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!