Success Mindset

YES – YOU’RE AN UNREALISTIC DREAMER, AND DEFINITELY SOMEWHAT INSANE … AND?

Lately I’ve been feeling heavy with the demands of my soul, with all that I know I must still become, do, create, and allow.

Have you ever felt that way?

I’ve been feeling the weight of being this person, been noticing it for some reason in a way which causes me, almost, to wonder –

Do I have to ALWAYS want so much?

I look around –

In a cafe, or at the school, or at the mall, or in my head –

At the normal people.

I try not to stare when they’re near me, but I listen, I observe, I notice, and then when they walk away, sometimes I find myself gazing after them in fascination, curious to know, unable to understand at ALL, what it must feel like, to be content, satisfied, at peace, with LIVING like that.

That sort of relationship, that sort of health, the job, the life, the sitting, the God-damned sitting around, which seems to be such a big part OF life for Those Who We Shall Call The Others, the sitting around and waiting, I suppose –

For the wind to change
For the year to pass
For a direction to be given

“Here is what’s next!”, and “oh, okay!”, they get up –

And they go do it.

And I wonder, I really do, if perhaps they ARE happier than any of us will ever be, because if you don’t know that there’s MORE, and you have what is widely considered ‘a good and normal life’, then surely you’d be SATISFIED, at peace, if not patting yourself on the back for having DONE it right.

I wonder about this.

And I think, that for many OF The Others, this might be true. If this IS the case, I’m happy for them, because the whole point is not to have to live THIS life, the whole point is to do what fills you up and live the life YOU know you were born to live … that’s the way I see it.

So, if they’re happy, if they truly feel ‘done’, if as they sit there nothing beats itself against the walls of their mind an heart and soul SCREAMING at them and demanding to know if THIS IS ALL THERE IS, then –

I’m happy for them.

The thing is …

I remember.

I remember what it was like to be on track for ‘living the dream’.

At 25 I was married, making great money, had a badass apartment in the BEST neighbourhood, drove a BMS, traveled all the time, was living the dream!

We were talking about moving further out … having kids … building a life … and all I could feel was absolute

cold

hard

terror

And my soul shrieked at me, and demanded to know:

IS THIS ALL THERE IS?!

I looked to the future. Of the life I was building. And it scared me SO MUCH. But more importantly, or relevantly to our story and to YOU, was the fact that I KNEW –

NO.

FUCK no.

THIS is not all there is.

So I might have sat there, sit sit sitting around in my somewhat normal and SUCCESSFUl life, waiting waiting waiting for the years to pass and the hurdles to BE passed, but I knew.

I fucking KNEW.

When that marriage ended, my husband wondered how he didn’t see it coming.

“All I had to do was look at the FUCKING BOOKSHELF!”, he said.

‘Authentic Happiness’
‘Change Your Life in 30 Days’
‘Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life’
And of course, always, since day one – 
‘Flow’
(where it all began, in a way, for me, with this book …)

And every other possible tome you can imagine around happiness
purpose
passion
and living a different life

The thing is –

Even when, for a while, I did a decent job of wearing the mask of The Others, it never FIT me, and it sure as all get out never felt like I actually WANTED it to.

I might ‘show up’ for the things I’d agreed to in my life at that time –

But I wasn’t there.

I was wandering
Through a thousand planets and places
Living atop the Faraway Tree
Traveling to places I designed in my mind
And dreaming
Of more
In ways I knew not how to POSSIBLY bring to life, or even where to start

I was a fantasist
My body would attend in the real world
My truth was always what was inside

And no matter how caught up I did indeed become, for a moment or two, in living like THEM, the truth is I always knew:

YES I’m a fantasist, an unrealistic dreamer, and most likely INSANE with the things I imagine I can have …

AND IT’S ALL REAL AND POSSIBLE.

I always knew.

If I sat down over coffee with you, and we talked about this, we might talk about fear and the relentlessness of it not working the way you want it to, the exhausting pain, at times, of pushing on, but when all is said and done, if I asked you if you just know –

There’s only one answer you can give, isn’t there?

You KNOW.

What is available.
What is possible.
That you don’t fucking HAVE to live the normal life.

AND YOU’VE ALWAYS KNOWN THIS.

Just as –
Some of THEM, they who I observe out and about in the real world, THEY KNOW.

They might sit there
I wonder at them
I’m fascinated by them
Sometimes I even wish I could feel what it would be like to BE them, for a minute, and not live with this CONSTANT KNOWLEDGE OF MORE

But for CERTAIN, there are those of them who are sitting there
Body in attendance
Soul traveling
And in between screaming

“Is this all there is?”

“HELP me”

“GET ME OUT OF HERE”

But, they won’t.

For the most part, they won’t …

It’s the most awful awful and sad thing, but it’s just how it is.

You and I though, WE ARE THE ONES WHO ARE DIFFERENT.

We are the ones who always KNEW we’d end up this way.

Always dreaming.
Always fantasising.
Always pushing.
Always DEMANDING more, and knowing we can damn well have it, too.

So when you look inside –

Or you catch yourself in a moment, wondering –

“AM I just crazy? Am I actually insane? Who the hell do I think I am, and anyway, HOW?”

– just remember

There’s nothing to be so dramatic about.
These are just the things you’ve always known.

Look back –

Think about the books you’ve owned.
The films you’ve been most drawn to.
The stories of others which have left you breathless.
The musings in your journal.
And most of all
The whispers of your soul which have ALWAYS BEEN THERE

It’s really not that complicated …

There’s no need to get so all up in a tizzy about whether, or how, or what anybody else has to say or think about it, or when …

It’s JUST HOW IT IS.

For you.
For me.
For the unrealistic ones.
For the dreamers.
For the crazy ones.
For the ones who have spent their lives knowing that more is available, but most of all?

For the ones who were actually prepared to walk away
From being or becoming one of THEM
And walk into the great unknown

Where we shall live out and end our days

The truth is you are never going to get to a point, not in THIS life, where you know everything you need to be doing, where it all makes sense, or where you are remotely even 1% DONE, with everything that is available.

The point is –
Getting to done was never the point.

And that is the key difference
Between being one of The Others
And being unable to NOT be

One of us.

Now –

Get back to fucking work 

After all –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

 

PS

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

Okay. Imma gonna get straight up on your ass about what needs to be said here, because obviously SOMEBODY needs to hit the damn truth button on this shit!!

Straight up from the gate up, you do NOT make money because of Facebook.

Because of Instagram.

Because of email.

Because of ANY of this shit.

You make money because of who you are and what you decide and make NON-NEGOTIABLE, period, The End!

As you may be aware, in the last day or so Facebook and Instagram went down down down OH so far down.

After a few obligatory ‘stop the world!’ messages to my team and friends (which resulted in a serious convo with one of my soul sisters as to whether we’d now have to become porn stars instead), I got back to business.

The business of posting and selling shit on Facebook, which is admittedly a big part of what I do each day???

Nah … the business of being ME, because THAT is what I actually do each day, and also?

It’s what gets me paid.

Funnily enough, as is often the way with these things, just yesterday somebody was making smart-ass comments to me about how all the coaches would survive if there was no Facebook or Instagram.

“How would they survive?”, I asked myself.

“Well, I have no idea how THEY would survive but I sure as shit know how I would survive:

Very fucking well indeed, thank you very much, because that is who I AM”

Word to the wise:

A) I was making serious money long before I used Facebook for it.

Allow me to say it again for those in the back: YOU MAKE MONEY BECAUSE OF WHO YOU ARE AND THE LEVEL YOU VIBRATE AT.

Vibrate?

It’s an energy thang baby, a frequency shiz niz, it’s just who you ARE and how life works for you.

Handy hint —> the level of wealth you enjoy or moan over now is already just a direct reflection of your frequency, and expectations. It ain’t got jack shit to do with what you do, and it certainly is not a product of which tools are available to you.

It is a product of YOU.

When the socials went down today it was FASCINATING to me to observe the response that came through in the in-between-y bits when people managed to post something.

People worrying about how it would impact their business, or feeling in some way handcuffed.

This is crazy! It’s fear-mongering at its worst and it’s an absolute SHITTY mentality as far as belief systems around where results come from.

Do you know what I felt, when I realised we couldn’t use Facebook as normal for our biz stuff?

EXCITEMENT.

It took a minute to click in, but I found myself getting all wriggly and lit up with excitement.

I love a damn challenge 🙂

And since I also choose to believe that everything is happening FOR me, I also took personal responsibility for this occurrence.

Obviously FB and Insta had gone down in order to force me to finally pull my finger out and learn how to go live on YouTube.

But mainly – hell YEAH to the opportunity to get creative!

Probably taking the whole thing a little bit too far, as I worked my way through some sprints on the rower post HIIT weights session, I started to imagine what would happen if Facebook was TRULY GONE AND NO LONGER OF THIS WORLD.

I got MORE excited with each second that passed (which makes me remember how damn BORED I get as soon as I know how to easily do something aka make money all day err day on Facebook), and I also found myself AUTOMATICALLY GOING INTO ZAG MODE.

Zag?

You know, like ‘When They Zig you Zag’. A classic, if ever there was one!! Thank you Dad, for always having all the BEST books on your bookshelf for me to start reading from 10 or 11 years of age!

See, I have a belief system which works rather well for me and I guess is just part of who I am –

I believe that things ALWAYS work out perfectly for me, and are always done FOR me …

I believe I am always on path …

I believe I always make the right decision, so therefore I never have to beat myself up, I just wait for the lesson –

AND

(drumroll)

I believe that my outcomes are predicated only by my choices, and that there is nothing I EVER need in order to get or maintain or ONLY improve on an existing outcome.

It’s this mindset that causes me to wonder what TF it has to do with anything when people say things like they can’t be in shape ’cause they have kids or just had a kids … or ’cause they can’t get to the gym (for example)

And it’s also this mindset that causes me to KNOW that the money I make and the impact my soul work has in the world has NOTHING to do with what tools or platforms are available to me or working.

I programmed myself a long time ago to IMMEDIATELY swerve if something was no longer serving me or working for me. It’s this part of my mind which therefore right away started coming up with creative and imaginative solutions for how business would OF COURSE carry on (and improve!) with or without social media.

And it’s also this part of my mind which of course right away finds a way to monetize the damn thing and turn it into epic and highly helpful content for you, aka this workshop!

It’s just how I think, and who I am. I am simply unavailable for NOT moving forward, and nothing will ever ever EVER make me believe that I have to depend on anything outside of me for my results.

So why a whole damn workshop on the concept?

Well, it’s more than that, isn’t it?

It’s a mindset of believing that you always get what you want.

It’s a mindset of believing that everything always works out for you.

It’s a mindset of believing that NOTHING can stop you.

That everything is working in your favour.

And?

That you can monetize ANYTHING, any time you choose, and with no ‘requirements’ in order to do so!

I don’t have to tell you that obvs the outcomes you get directly follow and reflect your mindset and your beliefs!!

Here is what else, as well:

This is not just about making money any time, from any thing, and knowing that even with challenge or things going wrong you only THRIVE and EXPAND!!

For me this goes hand in hand with duh – I get to do all of that on my terms.

By having FUN, and being in FLOW, and with ease.

In fact, the more money the more ease!! #justhowitis

That I can literally click my fingers and money shows up for me, meanwhile I’m just over here doing ma thang.

Speaking of which –

I think it’s about time I shared exactly what I currently DO all day, yeah? And how I do it / fit it all in / honour ALL the areas, PLUS manage to spend so much time sitting on my ass doing sweet FA!

In other words … !

Let’s hang out together this weekend!!

Introducing:

MONETIZE THAT SHIT NO MATTER WHAT

{AND DO WHAT YOU WANT ALL DAY}

A One-Time Live Online Workshop with Katrina Ruth, on How to Make Money Anywhere, Anytime, With ZERO Dependance on Any One Platform, Program or Tool … Aka JUST BECAUSE THAT’S WHO YOU ARE … AND – With the Greatest of Ease

> It’s happening Thursday March 21 at 11.30am Brisbane time (Wednesday 9.30pm NYC / 1.30am London, UK)

> All fully recorded if you can’t attend live

> ALL your questions answered (either live during the workshop, or afterwards in the group if you can’t attend live)

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!!

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What We Will Be Covering!

1) How to Monetize ANY Situation, Including But Not Limited To:

* When social media or any typically depended upon platform goes down (including examples of how I have down this several times, to the tune of tens of thousands)

* Hater situations (including examples, again multiple times, again tens of thousands of dollars)

* When you make a fool of yourself / something embarrassing happens or you screw up (also examples! also lots and lots of lovely moolah)

* When people ‘screw you over’ (ahem, we will talk about this) or desert you (also examples! more money!)

* Basically how to turn any and all life situations, moods, changes of the moon, emotional ups and downs, real life SHIT, to money!

2) Why the ‘When Shit Happens’ times are often the BEST times to make money, aka this is where I teach you what it really means to understand human psychology in terms of SALES, and the mindset of being an actual IN THE FLOW entrepreneur, who ALWAYS sees opportunity and jumps straight on it

3) When NOT to Monetize (okay that one you can have for free – never!!)

4) Understanding Where Money Really Comes From – and aligning yourself TO the frequency of wealth, such that you can literally NOT.BE.IMPACTED by anything that 99.99% of people think will cost them business

5) Money Vibration Principles Revealed (… my own personal philosophies and things that I live by / instil into my being around this, including my own daily practices)

6) Coding For Success

* How to ALWAYS have an endless stream of ideas

* AUTOMATIC continual unleashment of creativity and imagination, especially in so-called times of struggle

* Seeing past problems and accessing higher self in order to always know the answer, and how to move forward

7) Programming to Upgrade – the beliefs, energetic states and emotional patterns you require in order to be this person, have all this work for you, ALWAYS see and have the ability to act on the shit that will most pay off

The ‘Do What You Want All Day’ Bit:

* Exactly how my typical day flows and how I operate for maximum efficiency of time, energy, mental acuity, soul connectedness, etc

* Getting it all done as a busy entrepreneur (and single Mum, in my case) who also refuses to operate at anything less than EXCELLENT in terms of self-care, fitness, fun, playtime, etc

* Exactly what I do all day, broken down to the detail, to helm this becoming-8-figure-empire

* Exactly what I do NOT do all day, either it just gets ignored (hint: a LOT that most online marketers think matters!), or I let other people do it for me

* Calling in soulmate support, even long before you are ready to afford it

* Optimizing energy, focus, personal power, happiness, general flow. Aka mindset and also brain / nutrition hacks and so on

* TIME MANIFESTATION. OH YES IT IS A THING.

AND, while we’re at it, we will also be talking INSTANT MANIFESTATION. The exact process I use to bring the future into the NOW, by clearing all blocks existing between its reality in the quantum and its physical manifestation in the now!!

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PLUS!

I’ll be doing this ‘Rapid-Fire’ Session at the end!!

1) What it really means to be magnetic online – hint: it’s not about having a pretty and polished website or online presence!

2) Bringing the ‘in private / behind the scenes’ version of you to the public

3) Unapologetic messaging and soul baring to call in your true #soultribe

4) Audience quality vs quality, and active elimination of those who don’t ‘HELL yes’ on your content

5) People don’t buy your products, they buy you. No – people don’t buy you, they buy your energy!! What that means and how to let it out

6) Being real about where you need to take care of YOU in order to be able to show up and shine fully

7) Keeping a laser-focus and tunnel-vision on your own path, and having the courage to pave the way that feels right for you even if it’s not been done before

8) Discernment to walk the line between being polarising and positively outrageous as opposed to just a hot mess 🙂 Scaling and magnetizing FROM the chaos of creativity and following the true artists way!

9) Knowing which ideas to work, what will sell, and how best to sell it so that the entire launch and selling experience is fun AND rewarding for both your audience and you

10) Creating hell yes offers that make them scream yes!

I know!

This workshop is off the HOOK already, and we haven’t even accounted for all the random shiz which will be coming out of me!!

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Don’t forget the bonuses >>>> !!!

> KILLER bonus content on Top 11 Most Effective & Proven ‘When They Zig You Zag’ Sales Secrets

> Live support from meeeeee in the group afterwards for anything extra you want and need to know!

> Free Bonus Entire COURSE for Everyone! My $197 Alignment & Asskickery Toolkit, a 14-Day Smackdown to Bring You Back to YOU, and Into Massive Aligned and Result Based Action! Yes, that’s an entire $197 course and you’re paying less than half of that for this entire workshop!

> All content yours to keep for life!

What are you waiting for? You KNOW that if you apply even ONE tip of the approximately gajillion I’m sharing here you’re going to 100x your investment back! Which is why I am even EXTRA excited to be able to give this to you at such a low price, as per the commandment of my soul!! Plus it’s fun 🙂

Okay then! See you IN there baby!

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