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Success Mindset

SAYING YES TO MAYBE IS COSTING YOU FUCK YES

The question you should be asking yourself, if right now you know you are sorta maybe kinda possibly saying yes to something which should barely even be a maybe at BEST, is not “can I do this, am I okay with this, can I make it work and will it be fine and perhaps even great?”, the question you should be asking yourself is –

“Is there any part of me which can NOT do this?”

If, and only if, the response is “I HAVE to do this, there is no WAY I can NOT do this, are you freakin’ crazy?!”, THEN you have the go ahead from soul, from higher self, to do the damn thing.

Let’s be perfectly clear here:

When you choose to do or stay with or give of yourself to a thing that is anything other than what I just said, you crowd up the space where the fuck yes thing was supposed to be.

This can happen with people.

It can happen with business ideas, and creative projects.

And if you’re not careful and you’re very very fucking stupid and persistent at creating the wrong fucking life, it can happen with your entire life.

For those to whom this does happen (which is MOSTLY ALL OF THEM, THE PEOPLE PEOPLES) the story which is told the entire way through, is some mix of it’s ‘just this one time’, or ‘just this one last time’, or ‘it’s really not such a big deal, I can do this and also start doing what I really want to do’, or ‘I HAVE to right now for money / other reasons’.

The story, whichever one you’re using, is a lie.

It’s a bullshit myth perpetuated by the fear-mind, and designed to seduce you away from purpose, and a life less ordinary, the life of your DREAMS, your heart, your soul, your God damn blueprint.

And?

Try as you may to convince yourself otherwise, you can NOT have it both ways.

You’re a liar AND a fool if you’re actually pretending to believe that saying yes to maybe can in any way result in a fuck yes outcome.

You’re a bigger fool still if you don’t acknowledge that keeping the maybe around not only crowds up space where fuck yes was supposed to be, but it also REPELS fuck yes.

Do you get that?

Oh, I know you already GET it; your bones know it, it’s been in your consciousness the entire time!

But do you get it and are you willing to accept it, in the here, in the now, and in terms of what that would mean about some choices you’d best be getting on with toot suite.

Including some walking away …

MAYBE repels FUCK yes.

For example –

Signing up ‘kinda sorta not too bad’ clients, or allowing them even into your low-cost products and programs repels your TRUE soulmate clients. They see and FEEL the crowd you got goin’ on around you, and they distance themselves because it is NOT them, or, they just flat out don’t notice you at all.

Want soulmate fuck yes clients EXACTLY like your soul ordered??

Be prepared to ruthlessly cull and then NEVER ALLOW IN AGAIN everyone else.

Most people reading this won’t do this.

Most people are full of shit, but they’re happy to call themselves the 1% within the 1% within the 1%, and say they believe in purpose, in creating their life purposefully, in stepping fully up, saying yes to what’s inside of them, pressing play!

Full of talk.

Always afraid to walk it.

The same goes with projects, ideas, joint ventures you’ve given of yourself to, creative endeavours.

If it doesn’t:

– light you up and lift and excite you every time you think about it
– bring a MASSIVE positive energy charge
– cause you to feel so damn PROUD to sell it or be a part of it
– feel as though it HAS to be born, that if you don’t do it it will damn well birth itself!
feel like easy fun flow to create, even with challenges or uncertainties inherent

IT SHOULD NOT BE BIRTHED, MADE, OR EVEN THOUGHT ABOUT!

But yet you continue to give time, energy, emotion, your LIFE to these things because you think

– They could make you money
– Or make you look good
– Or make you more credible
– Or you’re too damn scared to do what you really want to do, and this feels safer, better, smarter
– Or you’re worried a REAL idea won’t come through
– Or just because you already said you would! 

Want to know what one of the greatest causes of a life NOT well lived is, for one of us; for a called one?

FAILURE TO WALK AWAY.

Fuck failure to follow through, that is to your CREDIT!!

Learn to be really really good and really really fast at walking away, and follow the damn RULES of your soul as far as what you consider bringing to life in the world. I wrote ’em above 🙂

Speaking of which –

You say you’re an artist, a messenger, one who channels and downloads from soul, a TRUE leader who lets the message be the message and the art be the art and yet you continue to try and sell or create shit from FEAR or ‘I should’, or ‘it will be fine, I can make it good even!’.

Don’t make me cry.

That’s not art.

That’s not truth.

That’s not messaging.

That is not FAITH.

If you want to be GREAT, if you want to be all you were born to be, you MUST be willing to ruthlessly and RAPIDLY walk away from all that is not I ABSOLUTELY FUCKING HAVE TO DO THIS AND NOTHING AND NOBODY CAN STOP ME.

Or just never align yourself with that shit in the first place.

This concept applies to EVERY area of your life.

Want fuck yes romance? Be ruthless about culling and never entertaining for even a second anything that is not that.

Want your days to float and flow exactly the way you always dreamed of? Duh, then stop doing shit you think you have to do so that one day you can do what you want. No! It doesn’t work like that. You have to LIVE YOUR PERFECT DAY NOW to create your perfect business, lifestyle, life.

Want more explanation on THAT, or some kind of proof?

Fuck you.

You either are one of us, and courageous enough to follow soul and faith and fly fucking blind, led from WITHIN, or you should get out now.

And here is what all of this comes down to, really:

Some people were born to paint by numbers, do ‘good’ work in the world, be a cog in a pretty wheel.

Some were born to light up the damn heavens and leave the entire world breathless, paving their way with fury and fire and flow and FUCK YES, after first walking away from EVERYTHING safe and normal and NOT that.

You can’t be both.

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/