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Success Mindset

LOCKING DOWN THE HABIT OF WALKING AWAY

If there’s one habit I’ve cultivated that I’m most proud of myself for, aside from perhaps the habit of practicing surrender, and TRUST (both essential, btw, if you want to allow in the things you want!), it’s the habit of being able to cut myself free from things which don’t align.

“That’s just classic Katrina, isn’t it? It’s like your MO or something, you always just end up walking away from people. Relationships, friends, all of it!”

I remember somebody saying this to me years ago, who was hurting as I was, well, walking away from them, and it made me really pause.

There was truth in it.

And it stung, a little bit, in that moment, as I wondered –

Is this something, as is being implied, that I should worry or feel bad about? Maybe I just have a problem following through on things, or staying the course! After all, I DO walk away from people a LOT … already back then, when this was said – years ago – I’d lost SO many people who were once insanely close to me. Now that number is even higher!

So I stopped, and I thought about it –

Maybe I needed to take stock of the choices I was making, and realise that I can’t always have everything my way … or maybe (as was recently thrown at me by a different person, also one who I had to walk away from), maybe it really is that my standards are too high.

“Well you just keep on raising the bar, don’t you?”

(Said with not the most complimentary of tones)

The thing is –

Try as I might, and I really have tried ever single time someone gets hurt by me, well, raising the bar or perhaps better said just being clear on where it was all along, I actually just can’t bring myself to feel bad about this.

You know?

Yesterday I was teaching in my Inner Circle private client group around the process of manifesting the so-called impossible.

One of my clients had an EPIC epic, beyond epic win in January after riding out some pretty gnarly stuff in the lead up, and we were breaking down what actually had to be in place, what was in place and how she stepped up in order for this to happen.

The first thing on the list?

Walking away.

Releasing, walking away from, leaving, turning her back on STUFF THAT WAS NOT FULLY ALIGNED.

You’ve heard it a million times – if it’s not a hell YES it’s a hell NO.The thing is –

Most people aren’t actually backing that shit up, are they? And by most people I possibly mean YOU. For sure right now there are things in your life which are not a 100% certain HELL yes, which means they are in fact a hell NO, automatically, and you’re just kinda sorta pretending it’s not really an issue.

Doesn’t matter whether these are big things, such as relationships, or less convoluted things, such as what’s in your funnel or what you’re selling, or heck, even what you’re eating for lunch, the PRINCIPLE remains the same.

When you continue to say yes to hell NO –

Life will continue to NOT say yes to you!

Let’s not forget that life will meet you exactly where you choose to go, so every time you accept something which is in fact not acceptable for you on a soul level, life gets the message loud and clear that THAT IS WHERE YOU WISH TO PLAY.

In maybe.

In ‘not quite’.

In nearly.

In ‘it’s not so bad!’.

And here is what else –

The longer you take, to walk away from things which are not aligned, the greater the price you pay.

Sure, you may eventually make the decision and God damn be who you’re meant to be, but your FAITH was WEAK.

And your rewards shall be reduced accordingly.

This is not some sort of punishment from God, this is a simple PRODUCT OF YOUR ACTIONS AND CHOICES.

It’s how life works.

On the other hand, become the person who SWIFTLY acts, always, without fail and without exception, and no matter how sticky or tricky the situation, or what the supposed fallout, in the direction of alignment and your REWARDS WILL BE GREAT ACCORDINGLY.

“Classic Katrina, isn’t it?”

“You just keep on raising the bar”

“Your standards are too high, you’re being unreasonable”

Well –

THANK YOU.

You’re right.

And THANK YOU.

And actually, no, I never raised the bar, the bar was always where it was, and this is true in business, with money, with what I require in a romantic relationship, with my body, etc, however what is true and where I get I may have confused God, others, myself –

And so I’m sorry for that –

Is that I did not always live in accordance with my own standards.

I settled.

I sacrificed in ways which were not aligned.

I made compromises that went against soul.

And I PAID THE PRICE ACCORDINGLY.

Damn straight, too, and I’m glad I did, because how else would I learn, grow, drop deeper into me, drop deeper into soul, become ROCK SOLID ON WHO I AM AND HOW I SHOW UP AS WELL AS RECEIVE?

I’m always so grateful, for the lessons learned.

But learn I DID, that’s for sure.

Grow I did, and continue to.

And become EVER QUICKER at cutting loose from shit that’s not aligned, yep, done that too.

Continue to.

And reap the REWARDS accordingly.

I can tell you right now, if you’re keeping stuff in your life in ANY area which you know is meant to go, you can do all the work you like to commit, to create, to allow in the life you dream of and know is aligned it WON’T FUCKING HAPPEN, and that should be OBVIOUS.

Isn’t it true that one of the most critical elements of receiving at the next level is that you need to BE the next level you, the you who would have that life?

Hmmm?

Hmmm!

Which makes it very black and white, doesn’t it?

Actually it always was … no need to pretend otherwise 😉

So,

Either the way you’re showing up right now for your body, your health, how you eat and move, is next level you behaviour, or it’s not.

Either your current relationships (all of ’em, personal and professional) are a hell YES, of COURSE the elevated me would have this and be in this, or NO.

Either what you’re selling and how you’re putting yourself out there is an EXACT MATCH FOR YOUR HIGHER SELF, or no.

Either what you’re spending your daily time on is of COURSE, or it’s what in the actual fuck?

I guess what we’re really saying here, is either you believe you can have the life you dream of, fully, and just as it’s been shown to you, and on.your.terms, or?

No.

And if no?

Then no.

You ain’t gonna see it happen for you.

Is that really new information though?

Go do what you gotta do.

And don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

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All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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