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TAKE A MOMENT TO SLOW DOWN, AND ASK YOURSELF WHAT REALLY MATTERS

If you haven’t done it in a while, I encourage you to take a day today to slow down, breathe, look within, and ask yourself what really matters and whether you’re actually on path, towards it.

I know it might be a somewhat unexpected thing for this self-confessed Queen of Hustle to suggest to you. After all, I’m all about the PUSH, the GO, the SPRINTING your way to rich, to your dreams, to having it ALL! I believe that most of the time if you feel overwhelmed, stressed, are suffering from a lack of energy or a lack of being able to get off your ass that what you do NOT need is to slow down and breathe but instead to wake up and live.

Do more, faster, harder, with greater extremes, now!

Yes.

The reality is that most people need to wake the fuck UP and press play, the reality is that if you DO struggle with energy and motivation it’s because you’re very likely not doing ENOUGH, on purpose.

But all that being said –

Sometimes a purpose-driven-preneur like you and I just has to take a day to CHECK THE FUCK IN.

This is a day when you give yourself permission to not ‘have’ to do anything, not even your normal non-negotiables or routine-based behaviours that you swear by.

The thing is …

Just on a side note …

I personally find that when I take a day like this, which I do every few weeks on a Thursday like today, I tend to end up still DOING my daily non-negotiables, such as do my journaling, write this blog, work my ass out, get my hustle on. I guess the truth is that when I give myself space to do whatever I WANT, what I end up wanting and craving is the stuff I’ve long disciplined myself to do anyway 🙂

Which is kind of the point, isn’t it?

Don’t you think the point is that if you take a day – or a breath – to check in with what you really want, and what flow would look or feel like, what you’d be doing or creating if you could do anything you WANT?!

I ask myself these sorts of questions daily, in my journaling.

And daily, for years now, when I do check in, whether for a minute or whether for an entire day of breaking my own rules and ‘doing nothing’, I find myself coming back to the same things.

All I want to do, is everything I’ve long created a habit of doing 🙂

So why bother, why stop, why press pause, why not just POWER ON ALWAYS, sure that you know what you need or want and just need to keep following the fuck through?!

Well, firstly, it’s rejuvenating for the mind and soul to have a ‘go with the flow’ day. Today for example I slept in, woke with the sun, took my time getting up and out, hung out at the playground with my son before finally making our way to the cafe we are at now, and even here I’ve been mainly sitting around watching him play. I gave myself full permission to NOT journal or blog, but after a little bit of time I found myself simply wanting to.

And so I did, but with zero PRESSURE to perform or produce.

And this is the other reason I encourage these sort of days –

When you give yourself permission to just see what your heart actually wants you may well find that you end up desiring to do the same sort of things you normally do. I would hope so … but if not then that’s an even more important reason to have these days, and use them as a guiding light to fix your shit! But even if what you naturally want to do IS the same as what you normally do, these sort of ‘I don’t have to’ days allow you to check in on the small shifts, the nuances, and perhaps the energy or emotion you do want to feel as you go through your normal day.

I like to think I’m pretty tuned in and on the ball with running my business and creating both it and my life from flow, in alignment, with purpose, but even with the best of intent it’s hard not to at times forget the reasons you started with all of this in the first place, or to notice the little ways in which your soul is calling you to evolve or grow.

When I take a day like to day to just breathe deep and do what I WANT, I do end up doing the same stuff. But the energy of it is different. I remember and connect back to my why. I notice things I may have missed in the normal rush and focus. And I become aware, also, of how much energy and even time I probably waste, on the other days, making sure I get ALL the shit done.

In the end, the only shit that really matters is the stuff you find you can’t NOT do, when all is quiet and still.

For me, I’m grateful that I’ve checked in on this stuff so much over the years that I’ve also turned the stuff I can’t not do into the stuff that has built this business –

This empire –

My life.

All I ever wanted to do really, was to write and speak and create, and motivate, inspire empower you to press play.

When I stop worrying about what I need to do and just do what I WANT, turns out?

It’s exactly that.

Today, go within.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

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The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/