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Success Mindset


The rules of the world don’t apply to you baby.

It’s time to exit the arena, immediately, and if need be tear some shit UP along the way.

I’m going to affirm for you something which you’ve long suspected to be true, and which in fact your soul has ALWAYS known.

It’s something you’ve tried to make yourself wrong for, assumed can NOT be right (or allowed!), and indeed fought hard to prove otherwise … not because you wouldn’t want to believe it’s true, but because, being human and all, you do still have that underlying fear that if you let yourself be as powerful as you actually ARE?

You might end up floating away – 

High in the sky – 

Leaving everybody you’ve known and loved and everybody who COULD know and love you behind –

And finding yourself completely alone.

Wouldn’t want to believe WHAT is true, exactly?

Why, the thing you DO IN FACT ALREADY KNOW IS TRUE, and indeed HAVE proven true many times, although you’d think it was something to be ashamed of, the way you try to push it down, push it away, shut that power OFF before it becomes too much and you don’t know what to do with it!

And that thing is this:

The rules of the world don’t apply to you baby, do they?

The rules which the world all around you, even the so-called ‘successful’ people live by, the rules which say:

There’s a right way.
And a wrong way.
There are steps.
There are processes.
You have to do it like this.
You have to be like us.
You gotta fit IN.
And this is how it’s just DONE, okay?!

Perhaps it was way back in school years, when it first occurred to you that hmmm – I just don’t THINK …

I just don’t actually think I need to DO that!

I remember being as young as 8 or so years old, and thinking, hmmm – I REALLY think I’m smarter than this teacher. I can do it faster. I KNOW more things.

Actually I feel that we ALL know more things, probably that poor teacher I was so sorry for also. The question is … do we allow ourselves to ACCESS those things, to use our true soul powers, to create outside of just the physical realm?!

And the answer, sadly, of course, for most people, even ones you love and admire or respect, is no –

They do not.

They exist in the physical.
They learn how to ‘do’ things.
They hustle PUSH, only.
They join dots.
They follow rules.
They build with their HANDS.
But not with their souls.
And then they make damn sure you stay within the lines as well, if you allow them to have any influence over you.

For me, and I suspect you have similar memories as well, I just found that I always had a better way.

I could do things faster than ANYBODY.
And I’d still always get the top result, if there was something being measured.

It was easy to be the best and to win.

It never had ANYTHING to do with what I did! I always just knew or decided the outcome I wanted, and then I ‘tuned in’ and found the fastest possible way to get there. Which, when I look back now, decades later, I can see was simply this:

I decided to get there and be there.
And so it happened.

Often I felt like I did NOTHING, in order to be the best, get the highest acclaim, make money since I was barely tall enough to be seen when I knocked on a door, etc etc.

As I got older, my ‘rule-breaking’ in school got to a point where I felt somewhat self-conscious about it. I was known as the good girl and the top of the class. I always achieved the top grades, and academic excellence. Teachers loved me! I was an example.

But yet –

I played hooky on an astonishingly high percentage of my final year classes
I wore jeans or knee-high coloured rainbow socks to school when it was a strict uniform school
I didn’t study at all for my final year exams
I would leave assignments that were 40% of the entire year’s mark and which you were given 3 months to do, until the last night

And I always came top.

I even got the Student of the Year award in ALL my academic classes, at the end of Year 12. I remember sitting in that hall, having the dinner with my parents there; it was an end of high school celebration night in the sports hall … I kept getting called up to the front for awards, and I just kept thinking – what?! I barely even went to class!

But of course I was top.

Because I decided to be.

And so it was.

I felt a LITTLE bit bad about it … but then again … I got the results. Just not in the way I was told I had to.

Nowadays, when people on occasion somehow find it within themselves to tell me how I ‘have to do things’ if I want change, I might get triggered or angry for a moment (I’m still that little girl who will NOT clean her room if ASKED to, thank you very much, even if she was gonna do it anyway … lol …), but mostly I just laugh uproariously; inside my head at least.

No bueno.


Don’t believe you.

And why would I? Why would I CHOOSE to believe I have to in ANY WAY DO SOMETHING I DON’T FEEL LIKE DOING in order to get an outcome.

I don’t.
I NEVER have.
The RULES OF THE WORLD DON’T APPLY TO ME, and if you tell me I HAVE to do it a certain way, I’ll simply tell YOU –

Thank you but no thank you.
This isn’t going to work.
Much love!

Occasionally, of course, I slip into moments or even periods of self-doubt, and find myself saying ‘yes’ to any number of rule following things.

Take a few years back, when I invested 50k with a mentor in order to make everything really STRUCTURED in my business. I literally decided to hire somebody to show me exactly the opposite way of doing things from what I do. I figured it was about meeting MY gaps.

What I learned, in the end, after some actually pretty damn serious anxiety shit got me by the throat for weeks on end while I was trying to follow the damn PLAN, was that there’s a reason it has always worked to just be me.

And that no, nothing is missing when I just be me!

Do you hear me on that? I want you to really hear this!


Anyway, I ended up finishing the work with him early, and I was truly GRATEFUL to have had the chance to invest some serious coin into REMEMBERING THAT BEING ME IS THE BEES KNEES AFTER ALL.

When clients come to me, and often have stories of investing a LOT of money in a coach who told them a whole bunch of RULES, which basically nearly broke their spirit and soul and which they just couldn’t follow even had they have WANTED to, I remind them –

You didn’t lose anything.
You ONLY had to pay however many tens of thousands of dollars in order to learn more deeply to believe in you, and to follow what you feel inside.

What a motherfucking bargain! Imagine how much more time you might have spent questioning yourself, had you not done that.

Thank God!

This morning I was thinking about how, once every 18 months or so, I tend to throw out everything I KNOW to be true about how I am able to stay in fucking amazing shape, fuck, I still wear each summer my favourite pair of Billabong shorts which I bought when I was 21, my body is much the same as it’s been for 2 decades now, and I decide I need a PLAN.

I might go through a phase where I do gain some weight – which happened last year – and I get into doubt and questioning.

I probably ‘should’ go super strict, do the exact right training, etc, to fix this.

And so I go do something like that … for a period … and I tend to quite like it I suppose … until I suddenly start to FUCKING HATE HAVING TO DO SOMETHING.

ANYTHING, that is not me just following the FLOW each day, making up the rules as I go, based only on my own soul and what feels right, and doing what I want!

And also –


That’s only exactly how I have ALWAYS achieved or received EVERY amazing result in my life!

It’s always been when I turn AWAY from what everybody else is doing or says is right.

And when I just shrug my shoulders, laugh and spin and my heels and just fucking DECIDE –

I think I wanna look like THAT – !
FEEL like that – !
Make MONEY like that – !
Have clients like that – !
Travel like that – !
Live like that – !



I KNOW you’ve experienced this as well!

And I suppose that every so often we just need to be reminded of how powerful we are. So we go into a period of hiring somebody or following something or doin’ it like the other kids are doing it in business, fitness, whatever.

Until the inevitable point at which we LOSE OUR SHIT because you can’t tame a wild fucking stallion baby.

That’s never going to bode well for ANYBDOY!

And the stallion is gonna STIR SHIT UP at some point, you can rest assured of THAT!

If you’ve noticed you go through periods of tearing shit up and down and even supposedly ‘sabotaging’ stuff, then that’s just your inner stallion coming out girl! Helllllooooo Inner Circle clients who have at some point BURNED THEIR ENTIRE BUSINESS TO THE GROUND.

Which I myself also have done, several times 🙂

It’s an ESSENTIAL part, actually, of remembering your POWER.

And why would you NOT burn to the ground ANYTHING which you’ve allowed to restrain you. You don’t fucking need those chains in order to FLY. You KNOW this. You’ve ALWAYS KNOWN IT.

So here is what I want to say to you today –







And then?

Well, then –

Exit the fucking normal human person arena baby.

Stealth exit.

Or down in a blaze of glory.

You decide!

But either way, and most of all, just freaking own what you know to be true –

The normal rules of the world don’t apply to you.
That’s just how it IS.
It doesn’t make a diva or a bad person to know you can click your fingers, do magic, make a fuckload of money, be in shit hot shape, impact even millions if you want, and do it all whilst absolutely living your SOUL life.

Stop telling yourself a story it’s bad or wrong that you can do such powerful stuff, or that it gets to be such ease and flow.


It’s how it’s ALWAYS been.

And who the hell do you actually think you ARE, anyway, to dim your light like that.


And let the whole world see you.

BE the light and the example of what is possible.

And while you’re at it?

Slash the damn tires of anything that tells you otherwise.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.