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Success Mindset

THINKING OR PLANNING YOUR WAY OUT IS NOT THE ANSWER

When things are not working, success has slowed so far down that you’re not sure if the asshole ever really was there for you, you can’t find a flicker of flow for ANY sort of ready money, and you’re starting to wonder if you ever even knew who you were, the answer is NOT to try and think about what will work –

Make a list –

Check it twice –

Or start to get all up in your head even about what YOU want, making plans, and laying down ideas, and STRATEGIZING like a mofo when you damn well know your flow never came from any freakin’ STRATEGY before.

When things are all slow and murky, you feel as though you’re wading through a never-ending God-only-knows-how-deep sticky as fuck LAKE of quicksand, you can’t get any further, you can’t get OUT though, and who the fuck had the idea to even go near this hell-sent place –

The thing that’s gonna save you is NOT that you should think your way out.

When things feel yuck
And even though you really do actually deep down love your life and who you are, a part of you right now hates the world AND your own face
And you’re just over ALL of it –

I know you think that what you need to do is get organised.
Be a proper entrepreneur!
Be like the others! (who??! WHO?! ARE THEY EVEN REAL, LET ALONE DO YOU ACTUALLY WANNA BE LIKE THEM?)
Do it all neat and tidy like and RIGHT.

I know you go all sad-sack-y over to your task list and you try to get all the ‘SHOULDS’ out of your mind and down onto paper.

Making yourself promises such as “this time I’m really going to do it properly!”

“this time I’ll go all in!”

“this time I really mean it!”

When you and I both know you are NEVER GOING TO BECOME SOMEBODY YOU NEVER WERE.

And we ALSO both know that it’s hell NOT the answer anyhow.

So don’t do it baby, don’t go there. When you’re in overwhelm and you’re lost and it’s stagnant and you just.need.a fucking.WIN, do NOT go back into Ms Thinky Thinkerson mode.

It’s never worked for you before.
It is NOT going to now.

Instead, this is what you do –

When things feel yuck
When they’re all murky as FUCK
When you’ve no clue
And there’s SO much to do
When you hate the world and mainly the sight of your own self
And you’re just kind of TIRED, really, can’t it all just be sorted for once?

You stay fucking strong and you refuse to give in to the urge that says “I will fight my way out of this by being a person I am not”.

And you stop.

You just stop, that’s all you need to do at first.

You stop.

FULL pause.

And you do WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO TO CONNECT BACK TO SOUL.

Do not pass Go.
Do not collect $200.
Do not do ANYTHING until you are connected back in.

Because here’s the thing, about being tapped in, dialled in, motherfucking dropped in, whatever you want to call it –

In that place there is no overwhelm.
There is no fear.
There is no LIMIT of ANYTHING.
Scarcity can’t exist.
Stunted or stilted or stagnant creativity is not a thing.
MAGIC, is abundant and fully free-flowing.

When you’re IN, you are IN, and nothing OUT of that exists.

It’s just you and God and soul baby. Full certainty. Full recognition of your own power and truth. And the absolutely unshakeable ability to just OWN all that you are.

Yeah –

In a ‘practical’ or so-called (really?!) ‘real-world’ sense, there will still be shit to do when you come back out of being dropped in.

But then again –

WHAT IF YOU JUST DIDN’T COME BACK OUT?

What if you just decided you don’t FUCK with fear anymore, that overwhelm doesn’t get to have a voice, and that when you’re not feeling ‘it’, then you’re not in a place of needing to take any sort of action or do any sort of thing, until you DO feel it again.

This is not escapism.
This is not avoidance.
This is not procrastination.

This is PLAIN AND SIMPLE DOING WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TO ACCESS THE PLACE FROM WHERE ALL ANSWERS FLOW.

And that’s how it is, isn’t it?

You either continue to eek out your days responsive to all the shoulds, striving eternally to get on top of things and get to where you can breathe,

or you just GO FREAKING NOW to where you can breathe.

Knowing and trusting that whatever actually HAS to get done, will occur with speed and also efficacy FROM THAT PLACE.

Knowing and reminding yourself that trying to DO, when not connected, is a fools game. You’re wasting your time, dulling your power, handcuffing yourself in every possible way.

So if you need solutions
And if you need strategy
And if you need a PLAN, for the love of God, I NEED A PLAN I CAN COUNT ON

Then go to the place where these things are ACTUALLY found
Do WHATEVER you must to do get there
Casting all else aside, no matter how much it yips and yaps at you to attend to it
And wait
Hold
Hold
Hold

When you think you can’t bear it for another second, HOLD SOME MORE

The answers are where they always were gorgeous.

Refuse to be available to NOT receive them.

And do the waiting and the spirit work accordingly.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!