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Success Mindset

THINKING OR PLANNING YOUR WAY OUT IS NOT THE ANSWER

When things are not working, success has slowed so far down that you’re not sure if the asshole ever really was there for you, you can’t find a flicker of flow for ANY sort of ready money, and you’re starting to wonder if you ever even knew who you were, the answer is NOT to try and think about what will work –

Make a list –

Check it twice –

Or start to get all up in your head even about what YOU want, making plans, and laying down ideas, and STRATEGIZING like a mofo when you damn well know your flow never came from any freakin’ STRATEGY before.

When things are all slow and murky, you feel as though you’re wading through a never-ending God-only-knows-how-deep sticky as fuck LAKE of quicksand, you can’t get any further, you can’t get OUT though, and who the fuck had the idea to even go near this hell-sent place –

The thing that’s gonna save you is NOT that you should think your way out.

When things feel yuck
And even though you really do actually deep down love your life and who you are, a part of you right now hates the world AND your own face
And you’re just over ALL of it –

I know you think that what you need to do is get organised.
Be a proper entrepreneur!
Be like the others! (who??! WHO?! ARE THEY EVEN REAL, LET ALONE DO YOU ACTUALLY WANNA BE LIKE THEM?)
Do it all neat and tidy like and RIGHT.

I know you go all sad-sack-y over to your task list and you try to get all the ‘SHOULDS’ out of your mind and down onto paper.

Making yourself promises such as “this time I’m really going to do it properly!”

“this time I’ll go all in!”

“this time I really mean it!”

When you and I both know you are NEVER GOING TO BECOME SOMEBODY YOU NEVER WERE.

And we ALSO both know that it’s hell NOT the answer anyhow.

So don’t do it baby, don’t go there. When you’re in overwhelm and you’re lost and it’s stagnant and you just.need.a fucking.WIN, do NOT go back into Ms Thinky Thinkerson mode.

It’s never worked for you before.
It is NOT going to now.

Instead, this is what you do –

When things feel yuck
When they’re all murky as FUCK
When you’ve no clue
And there’s SO much to do
When you hate the world and mainly the sight of your own self
And you’re just kind of TIRED, really, can’t it all just be sorted for once?

You stay fucking strong and you refuse to give in to the urge that says “I will fight my way out of this by being a person I am not”.

And you stop.

You just stop, that’s all you need to do at first.

You stop.

FULL pause.

And you do WHATEVER YOU HAVE TO DO TO CONNECT BACK TO SOUL.

Do not pass Go.
Do not collect $200.
Do not do ANYTHING until you are connected back in.

Because here’s the thing, about being tapped in, dialled in, motherfucking dropped in, whatever you want to call it –

In that place there is no overwhelm.
There is no fear.
There is no LIMIT of ANYTHING.
Scarcity can’t exist.
Stunted or stilted or stagnant creativity is not a thing.
MAGIC, is abundant and fully free-flowing.

When you’re IN, you are IN, and nothing OUT of that exists.

It’s just you and God and soul baby. Full certainty. Full recognition of your own power and truth. And the absolutely unshakeable ability to just OWN all that you are.

Yeah –

In a ‘practical’ or so-called (really?!) ‘real-world’ sense, there will still be shit to do when you come back out of being dropped in.

But then again –

WHAT IF YOU JUST DIDN’T COME BACK OUT?

What if you just decided you don’t FUCK with fear anymore, that overwhelm doesn’t get to have a voice, and that when you’re not feeling ‘it’, then you’re not in a place of needing to take any sort of action or do any sort of thing, until you DO feel it again.

This is not escapism.
This is not avoidance.
This is not procrastination.

This is PLAIN AND SIMPLE DOING WHAT NEEDS TO BE DONE TO ACCESS THE PLACE FROM WHERE ALL ANSWERS FLOW.

And that’s how it is, isn’t it?

You either continue to eek out your days responsive to all the shoulds, striving eternally to get on top of things and get to where you can breathe,

or you just GO FREAKING NOW to where you can breathe.

Knowing and trusting that whatever actually HAS to get done, will occur with speed and also efficacy FROM THAT PLACE.

Knowing and reminding yourself that trying to DO, when not connected, is a fools game. You’re wasting your time, dulling your power, handcuffing yourself in every possible way.

So if you need solutions
And if you need strategy
And if you need a PLAN, for the love of God, I NEED A PLAN I CAN COUNT ON

Then go to the place where these things are ACTUALLY found
Do WHATEVER you must to do get there
Casting all else aside, no matter how much it yips and yaps at you to attend to it
And wait
Hold
Hold
Hold

When you think you can’t bear it for another second, HOLD SOME MORE

The answers are where they always were gorgeous.

Refuse to be available to NOT receive them.

And do the waiting and the spirit work accordingly.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/