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Success Mindset

THIS IS HOW I PUSH

I’m going to tell you what it actually takes to be successful, and go to the top. And I’m going to promise you that there is a very good chance you will NOT like it, but if you wanna make it?

You better fucking learn to 🙂

Last time I took a complete day off work, that I remember, was in January of 2011.

During the time between then and now I have been hospitalised off and on for extended periods over 20 weeks during pregnancy, due to serious hemorrhaging complications, given birth, attended weddings and funerals, had 2 break-ups in my relationship and accumulated perhaps 14 million air miles.

Yet on I continued, day after day.

I’ve had days where I’m pretty damn sick, had several minor surgeries, too many travel mishaps to count, and many many MANY fucking days when I simply didn’t FEEL like it or when I was so heavily scheduled with normal life stuff, or perhaps running an event or something, and had barely a moment to go to the toilet let alone JOURNAL or MESSAGE or CREATE or SELL.

Yet somehow I did.

Basically what I’m saying is I’ve lived my LIFE, as we all ultimately must, but at no point in time have I thought it necessary to take a day off. I’m not quite sure what that early 2011 was all about!! 🙂

Even right now as I write this I am supposed to be boarding an international flight!! A series of mishaps getting to the airport have put me way behind and I didn’t yet get to write my blog.

Yet here I am.

I’ve had the usual ups and downs of business occur, shit going wrong, shit not going through the way it was supposed to, shit hitting the fan in the MESSIEST of ways.

I’ve been sick as fuck the last 4 days, sicker than I’ve been in years, in fact the last 2 days I’ve been so dizzy the floor keeps moving beneath me and my head is increasingly feeling like it’s trapped in a vice. Everybody I know who has this head cold, which seems to be going ’round, as they do (side note: WTF body; I don’t usually get this shit!) is resting, bed bound, taking time off.

I worked 18 hours straight yesterday, with one 5-minute break (during which I answered client messages while laying on the couch, so KINDA …), then slept 4.5 hours, got up for coffee and journaling this morning, hit the gym by 5am, was in the limo service to the airport by 6, did 3 client calls from the limo, left my laptop in limo so lost a bunch of time at airport, cleared out my PMs while waiting in the line to get tax back on new laptop, spent 40 minutes remote managing a needed hospital trip for my Mother-in-Law via means of organising one of my assistants to do school and hospital runs, set up the day for 4 team members so far, cleared my inbox, jotted down 4 new training ideas, put together a pitch for an international speaking gig, msgd with Regan about 39x, filled out an application for a proposal for a new business I’m looking at purchasing, had 3 x triple espressos and ate some eggs.

And now here I am, writing this. Boarding started 15 minutes ago, but as I said to Enzo who is traveling with me today (Queenstown! Regan! Snow!) we don’t fucking move a muscle until this blog gets DONE.

A lot of people will read this and roll their eyes or else feel SORRY for me.

“Priorities out of whack!”, they’ll think.

“Workaholic!”

“NEEDS TO SLOW DOWN AND BREATHE!”

“Disorganised, obsessive, relentless!!”

But here is what I think, and what you have to understand:

Successful people don’t fucking stop.

At 5am at the gym this morning I felt like SHIT. All day yesterday I seriously thought I might pass out. As I look back over the last 15 years of actively PUSHING to create my life on purpose, and the last 9 years of being online, I remember day after day after DAY of tired and stinging eyes, headaches, tears, frustration, even rage. Sometimes it all just seems like a blur of PUSHING, of pushing my body when I don’t want to, of sitting down to write when I have nothing to say, of selling when I’m fucking OVER it, of being absolutely fucking EXHAUSTED late at night – or anytime! – but yet rolling up my sleeves and doing the WORK.

If you want the result you better get used to rolling up your sleeves and doing the WORK, as a matter of course.

As a matter of who you ARE.

The world can fall AROUND you. NORMAL people can take fucking time off when they get sick, or there’s a live event, or a world event, or it’s mercury fucking retrograde (DON’T GET ME STARTED!) or they got their PERIOD or their DOG died or ANYTHING happened, anything, anything, anything at all that they can WITH VALIDITY use as an excuse, and that is their CHOICE, but we?

We don’t fucking CARE how valid the excuse is! THAT IS NOT WHO WE CAME HERE TO BE.

And you HAVE to understand that if you want to MAKE it then THIS IS WHO YOU NEED TO BE.

You WILL keep going, through the fire, and the brimstone, and the rain, and the flood, and the TORMENT, and when things don’t work, and when they don’t work for MONTHS, and when you’re CRYING ON THE FLOOR IN THE FETAL POSITION, and when you are sick, or tired, or just CAN’T.

You will pick yourself up.

You WILL grit your teeth.

You will roll up your sleeves.

You will SCREAM into the night.

And you will act as the person you SAY you want to be.

You wanna know how EASY success is, I can tell you, there is only ONE thing you have to do to go all the way:

GIVE IT EVERYTHING.

Of course the “big secret” which THEY will never get … and which I fear if YOU do not get makes you NOT ONE OF US …

You will fucking like it, and you’d never want to change it.

If you want to know if you’re living your life on purpose –

PRESSING fucking play

If you’re in alignment with what you came here to do and who you ARE –

If you’re following your CALLING and creating a life worth LIVING?

You wouldn’t stop the push if you were paid.

Find that.

And you find everything.

The thing that sets us apart from the rest is that we understand the meaning of life, is to live. And we COMMAND our business | work | calling to conform accordingly.

You may look at me and feel bad for me that I live for work.

I look at you and feel devastated for you that you never learned – CHOSE – how to press play, make money doing what you love, have your entire LIFE be purpose-driven and connected to results, and experience the JOY of the push.

Why would you create a life you look forward to time away from, when you can live one you love so much you can’t say no to it no matter WHAT?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/