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Purpose

FUCK DISCIPLINE. FUCK CONTROL. FUCK RULES. FOLLOW? FLOW.

Look, I’ll be the first to say, and have said, more times than I could remember or count – discipline is FREEDOM.

I love love love that I built this business on a foundation of being disciplined, and doing the fucking work. To this day, discipline is something that is inherent in who I am; I get a lot done, day in and day out, and because I treat my passions LIKE passions and not hobbies I take action on ’em whether I feel like it, and whether I don’t.

But.

BUT.

At the same time, there is this huge part of me which has acknowledged, realised, learned, shifted INTO over the past few years, the knowledge that DISCIPLINE FOR DISCIPLINES SAKE? AIN’T ALL THAT.

See I used to think that if I did more, pushed harder, got SUPER PROPERLY ORGANISED (like a real grown-up!) then I would get ahead faster.

I spent most of my twenties and my early thirties fighting against my own nature, to be this hyper organised person and Complete All The Things, always and no matter what.

If you’re trying to make yourself be THAT person, when in actual fact who you are is a creative FLOW person who is definitely next level crazy and just wants to be LEFT THE FUCK ALONE TO DO WHAT SHE WANTS, WHEN SHE WANTS AND WITH WHO SHE WANTS –

You’re gonna like this 

When I was in that phase in my life, the ‘you don’t do enough and you’re not working hard enough, and you need to get your shit TOGETHER!’ phase, I felt, most of the time, incredibly frustrated and down on myself.

It didn’t matter what I DID do, or what worked, what I was focused on was all the stuff I thought I SHOULD be doing, or doing better, or doing in a more structured manner.

I felt messy … like I was all over the place … and as though I must really just be so LAZY, because no matter how many damn lists I’d put certain things on, or no matter how much I promised anybody OR my own self that I was going to do it, no really, tomorrow, for sure – !

In the end I found that I only ever did what I wanted to do …

How I wanted to do it …

WHEN I fucking felt like it …

And only ever in a way that just, well, kinda flowed out of me. Largely, this meant hacking the whole damn thing and just getting the results I wanted or needed at the final hour and kinda by what FELT like it must be cheating.

In other words, DUH –

I JUST FUCKING DECIDED, AND THEN I GOT THE RESULTS.

Manifesting like a MOFO baby, since day one, long before I even knew what the word was, and certainly long before I got that this whole ‘cheating’ thing I thought I was doing, where I felt BAD about how I’d always just pull shit off last minute, or make magic by basically doing nothing, and it kinda sorta didn’t seem fair on everyone else, well –

That was always, of course, the actual fucking way the WHOLE damn thing was meant to be done!

And is 

I bet, without me even having to prompt you to think about it, you already ARE thinking of so many ways in your life in which you’ve just clicked your fingers, DECIDED, and made magic like this too, purely from flow.

You HAD to look shit hot fantastic for that certain event, and you ignored your diet regime, all the while beating up on yourself about it in the lead up, and then in the final few days you just decided you WOULD look the way you wanted to look, and it happened.

You HAD to have the money to invest in yourself or pay for something by a certain time, and you spent a ridiculous amount of time and effort trying to force yourself to make it hand over fist, while largely flaking out on everything you thought you should be doing, then in the final day or two, something just shifted, and poof –

It was done.

You HAD to work with that mentor –

Go on that trip –

Get that badass home or car or purse –

Do the thing –

Be the thing –

DEAL with the thing –

AND THEN YOU JUST DID.

That’s flow baby, that’s ease, that’s you tapping in to the powers that are ALWAYS available to you, every damn day!

But what if –

What if –

WHAT if – !

You dropped the whole bit that comes BEFORE the flow bit where you BEAT YOUR OWN DAMN HEAD AGAINST THE WALL AND INSIST IT HAS TO COME FROM HARD.FUCKING.GRIND …?

Hmmm? What if then?!

What if you dropped the bit where you beat up on yourself –

Where you try to FORCE yourself to do shit you don’t wanna do, in a way that doesn’t SUIT you –

Where you tell yourself there are RULES –

A right way –

And a wrong.

What then?!

WHAT IF YOU JUST WENT TO THE FLOW BIT?!

Well –

Maybe THAT is the ultimate discipline! To be disciplined enough to know that if you want shit to work you need to SHUT the fuck up and just

listen

in

To the voice in your head your heart your soul which tells you the way, tells you where ‘it’ is going to come from, directs and guides you, and knows ALL the answers and ALWAYS HAS.

Imagine …

ALl the time you could save, the effort you could pass over, the martinis that could be drunk!

And imagine what a joy it would be to know that when you ARE ‘doing the work’ it’s the actual fucking flow work which works and which you are MEANT to be doing.

For you.

Imagine!

THAT’S discipline.
THAT’S true control – being controlled by your OWN inner will and truth not by anyone else.
And that’s flow.

It’s also the ONLY way that shit CAN work, because let’s get real –

It was never going to be something that came from outside of you.

THAT MAKES NO SENSE.

IT WILL NEVER WORK.

NEVER EVER EVER EVER!

So fuck discipline, in the way that most people think of it.

Fuck the idea that you gotta control your natural urges or FORCE yourself to be in control and to get certain things.

Fuck ANYTHING which tells you that there is a way –

Any way –

Except for the way you are being directed to from within.

Today my message to you is simple:

Be God damned disciplined enough to listen in –

Have the self CONTROL to not be reactive to what everybody else is saying and instead to HEAR what you listen in on –

And then follow the fucking flow that’s already there waiting for you baby.

YOU KNOW WHAT YOU NEED TO DO.

Just?

Gotta bite the freaking bullet and do it.

Fuck everything else.

Remember –

Life is Now. Press Play! 

Kat x

PS.

I’m excited to announce my Flow-Led Millionaire Private Client Mastermind Days are back, happening this August (PM me for full deets!) 

Warning! This Mastermind will require you to get TF over your hang-ups around:

* Automated income

* Being seen more, and more boldly

* Adding layers upon layers upon layers of more SELLING

* Ruthless repurposing and re-selling

* Structure, systems, process

* Building a cash machine which pays you on repeat regardless of whether YOU are grinding your fingers to the bone to get it working!

Requirements:

You have an existing business which makes money, delivers a fabulous product or service (or multiple of!) which helps people, you know who you are and who you’re here to serve (while always welcoming deeper clarity!), and you have a proven track record for getting results to those people … even if it’s on a scale, so far, which, frankly, you consider outrageous. Since you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world!

Oh, speaking of which – you know you’re here to do insanely big work in the world! And you’re ready to put the wheels on that NOW, and see your revenue – your growth of soulmate audience – your soul-led result-gettin’ systems – and all in all your own badassery – explode, stat!

You’re not afraid of doing the damn work (duh),

but you also know that there’s a simpler way, a more flow way, a more YOU way.

And you’re ready to get down to the nitty gritty of that now, and then roll it out like the take no prisoners mofo you are.

All with me – secret counsel to the worlds most elite game-changers, leaders, and revolutionaries – supporting you to know exactly what to do,

and exactly how to do it,

so you make MORE money,

reach MORE (of the right people),

the YOU way,

having more fun and flow than you ever dreamed possible,

and finally knowing you’re all in on you,

Now!

What you get out of this time together is simple:

* Identified opportunities for money-makin’ – minimum 3, up to 10+ (this is normal in these conversations with me)

* Specific to you simple soulmate audience growth strategy, which you can roll out right away, and will often involve only ‘tweaks’ rather than having to DO anything dramatically extra

* Confidence and inner tools as well as practical steps for improving / adding to / setting up (depending where you’re at) your automated income / funnels 

* Personalised (to your personality / style / lifestyle / skillset) action plan for implementing

* Tweaks you can add in right away to increase sales on existing processes

* Daily / weekly ‘hustle flow plan’ individualised to you

All in all here’s what it comes down to:

>>> You will walk out with a complete action plan tailored to your business, very detailed and also very SIMPLE, with also a complete understanding of what you need to do and HOW to do it, to take you to the next major income level, and beyond.

This will include your next three offers (MINIMUM), up-sells, or funnel ad-ins, FULLY CREATED IN THE TIME TOGETHER!

Plus:

1:1 follow on support to help you implement and follow through.

I love doing this INTENSIVE deep dive work where we pull everything apart all at once, and then nail down the EXACT action steps for each person to take to get more paying customers and clients, who are soul-aligned, coming in NOW, who are also buying more things, because you’ve got all your damn shit in place!

This immersive day together is limited to 5-7 people per event. 

If this is speaking to you PM me here to apply / for more info!