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Success Mindset

Stop Sucking So Hard!

Aren’t you just SO damn sick of your own BS excuses about why you’re not where you want to go yet? I’m freaking OVER it! I’m over hearing my own whiny little bitch voice about the ‘big things’ that still scare me, and I’m over seeing incredible women like you peering nervously around metaphorical doors online when they should be smashing through that thing like the crazy awesome powerful AMAZING bitches they are.

I’m over seeing awesome MEN just wake up, decide what they want, and go get it with never a qualm about whether or not everybody’s gonna like them (‘of course they will; I’m me’, seems to be the general thought process there!), while awesome women who have what it takes to ROCK it are HIDING it under a freaking bullshit bland boring message of ‘please like me’, and ‘I’ll do whatever you want if you do!’.

Honestly ladies, I know we got some cool shit we could pass on to the men but in this area they totally have it over us.

Of course it’s not a man or woman thing, it’s totally a YOU thing I’m talking about here (me too in certain areas, for sure!), so let me ask YOU:

Aren’t you just over it?

Aren’t you fed UP yet?

Haven’t you had ENOUGH already with the same old same old made up blah di blah NONSENSE about why you’ve not yet achieved your dreams?

Let’s take one dream. Pick one of your BIG dreams, something you’ve wanted for a while. Something that’s not necessarily even about short-term income or fame but it goes beyond that. It’s truly BIG SHIT and when you get THERE? You’ll know you’ve made it, according to one of your own highest standards for success.

Now tell me honestly:

Did’jya work on this dream today so far?


This week?

Last week?

This fucking YEAR?!

And when I say work on it no I don’t fucking mean journal about it. Journaling is some POWERFUL powerful shit and yes dreams are made in your made first but sooner or later you need to actually DO THE FREAKING WORK.

So when did you?

And why. the fuck. not?

Guess what? Big dream life shit doesn’t happen by accident. It doesn’t happen because you’re a good person, or a nice one. It doesn’t happen because you fit IN or play the right game in the female entrepreneur Facebook groups you’re part of. It doesn’t even happen because you DESERVE it.

It happens.


You make it happen.

So pick a big dream, any dream, and get really really clear and simple about it.

Just to make it really super duper easy and simple for you, here are some ways to get started with some typical big dreams that entrepreneurs have:


Want to write a book, for example? NEWSFLASH you need to start writing then. Every day. You need to put a deadline on when it’s going live. You need to plan your launch. You need to learn how to publish that shiz or get someone to do it for you. These are just a few ‘starter’ ideas to get you going. I know, right? They are REVOLUTIONARY! Phew! Lucky you read this blog today or you’d have no idea where to start!


Oh, so you want your book traditionally published? YOU STILL NEED TO START WRITING. Every day. You need to also look at how you can build your current platform so as to be appealing to a publisher. Yep, having a publisher doesn’t mean you get marketed; YOU have to market you for anyone to take you on. You need to research potential publishers who suit you. You need to knock on doors. You need to make connections. You need to have conversations. You need to relentlessly chase those mofos down till you get hold of them and then you need to SELL YOU. Hard work, scary, daunting? Um … der! So the fuck what? You want it or you don’t?


Want to speak onstage at awesome conferences and events, have your brand presented to thousands? Do your reserarch. Make your connections. Have your conversations. PITCH yourself, oh and when you do? Have something real to fucking say okay? Nobody cares about how you want to help people with their health or their business or their relationships or their dream life, what’s your fucking MESSAGE? What’s the message you want to shake the world with? What’s your angle on it; how are you showing up and being the REALLY awesome actual you each day, ’cause if you’re not; if you’re playing it safe? Gonna make it kinda hard to convince anyone why they should publish or present or promote you, y’know?


Want to have a massive community of kickass fans who love you and love what you have to say and are pretty much chomping at the bit to hear it? Re-read what I just wrote – what’s your MESSAGE sister, what do you stand for, are you getting it out there and DAILY? I know this is like, so unfair, but ain’t nobody gonna follow you if you’re boring. And bland. And scared. So … get over it. Are you meant to be here, or not? Step INTO your calling, now!


Okay, this is going to BLINDSIDE you, no doubt about it, but here’s what you need to know about making serious cash in business:

You have to ask for it. You have to have stuff to SELL. It has to be high value and it has to also have an awesomeness factor to it. Educational value is NOT enough. And guess what else? Your first 999 things MIGHT fail. I mean usually it won’t take that long, but it might. You might have the PERFECT sales page, launch process, everything, and a great product to boot but that doesn’t guarantee you success.


It doesn’t matter what your goal or dream is, how complex or big it might be. The only thing that will guarantee you get there is you keep going till you get there. So many people seem to think that just because they followed all the rules and checked all the boxes for a few months or heck even a year that they should now be successful and WHY ISN’T IT WORKING? Well – because you haven’t fucking kept working, that’s why not! You want it then you need to get your ass up every day and do the work both inside and out.

Doesn’t work? Keep going.

Nobody buys? Keep going?

Scared, tired, exhausted, somebody hates you and your dog died as well? Keep. fucking. going.

Too extreme for you, you can’t live like that, you’ve got a family and a life; don’t I understand?!


I do.

I understand you’re never going to make it.

You don’t have what it takes.

NO FUCKING PROBLEM sister, it’s NOT freaking easy and it’s NOT for everyone and only those with BALLS OF STEEL can survive let alone succeed in this game. Now ANYBODY can make that choice to be that person, to grit their teeth and endure the blood, the sweat, the tears, the relentless NEVERFUCKINGENDINGNESS of it all, the God damn REPETITION where you just feel like when am I going to ever escape THIS cycle.

Anybody can choose to never say die.

So, you know, we don’t need YOU to do it. We need people in jobs for the world to keep functioning anyway! Go be one of those people.

Or if NOT, then get OVER all of your reasons-excuses-nonsense. Stand up fucking STRAIGHT. Get that glint in your eye that says that for once in your freaking life you’re going ALL IN. Make up your mind that when YOU set it to something you damn well make it HAPPEN.

And then get your ass up –

Lift your HEAD up –

Wake the FUCK up –

And go make it happen.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.