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Success Mindset

THEY’RE WAITING FOR YOU

Imagine if the mentors and coaches who had most influenced your life never said yes to boldly putting their true work out there, to getting over their insecurities and doubts and ‘who am I’, and to letting themselves be seen, and KNOWN, ultimately leading to you finding them.

When I think about the people who, through their work, have literally CHANGED my life to the level that I can’t ever FULLY express how grateful I am to them, I feel HORRIFIED at the idea of them not having been in my life.

It would be DEVASTATING.

Well, I guess I wouldn’t know, and I’d still be seeking, or someone else would have come along and filled that place, but the point is I am REALLY FREAKING GLAD THAT THOSE PEOPLE SHOWED UP.

As I’m sure you are, with the ones who have most impacted you.

But do you ever stop and think about the fact that these powerhouses, or heaven-sent healers and messengers, these amazing people who through their gifts have helped you to be more of you, that they do NOT in fact have anything magical that you don’t have?

They simply answered the call, and did the damn work.

Repeatedly, even on the days when they really didn’t want to, or feel up for it, or feel good enough, and thus they gradually built a brand, got ‘known’, and got found, by you.

And right now, the people who YOU are meant to most deeply impact are actively looking for you to show up, fully, and be there for them.

You walk around, and you tell yourself that you’re not good enough, or ready, to coach clients at THAT level, you know – the sort of clients who your soul tells you you’re most here to lead, and help – and so you don’t NAME it and CLAIM it and say hey – !

If you are a such and such person, I CAN HELP YOU.

And meanwhile, such and such high level very specific badass AF client is wondering why TF it’s SO hard to find a mentor or coach who GETS them, who shows up in the way they LONG for a mentor to show up, and who can kick their ass just right!

Don’t you get it?

You’re FULL of ego if you’re not simply and calmly stating THIS IS WHAT I DO AND WHO I AM HERE FOR AND HOW I CAN HELP.

The REAL thing, the BOLDEST vision, the most full on audacious high level shiz-niz.

You’re SAYING that your own fears and insecurities matter more than just doing what you’re meant to do.

And the clients, those badasses who you KNOW you can help – they are tearing their hair out wondering where you are!

It’s NOT easy to find a mentor or coach who can do all that YOU can do, for the simple reason that YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN FILL THAT ROLE.

So if you’re HIDING, downplaying, sweeping your true gifts under the carpet, or simply imagining that you can’t work with ‘those’ sorts of clients YET, then you’re STARVING your ideal clients of what they need and want, and also what is meant to be, because let’s face it –

When we desire and long for something –

A certain type of mentor or coach
A certain type of client
A certain type of lovvverrrrr
A certain type of support person
A certain type of friend
Etc

– that also means that that is what we’re SUPPOSED to have.

We don’t get given dreams which are not our dreams.

So, some poor person – and probably a lot of ’em – is walking around NOT ABLE TO FIND WHAT THEY’RE MEANT TO HAVE, and wishing they could have what they dream of, and YOU, like an asshole, or keeping it away from them.

It’s really not good enough.

It’s REALLY time to stop making it all about you and realising it is your RESPONSIBILITY to tell and show the world how you can help, it’s not something you somehow ‘earn the right’ or ‘get good enough or worthy’ to do.

This is equally true when it comes to calling in the exact romantic partner you want.

You think that your list of everything you want and long for and dream of is SO demanding, SO ridiculous, WAY too much, who the hell do you think you are, to imagine you should get to have a man with all of THAT going on, and besides – does such a person even exist? Is it even possible?!

Meanwhile, THAT EXACT PERSON is walking around wondering why THEY can’t find YOU.

Have you ever thought about the fact that a man like that could REALLY only be in a relationship with a very certain type of high-level woman? They’re NOT going to be able to settle for anything less than that!

And you, that actual person, are hiding away out of fear that you’re too demanding, or shouldn’t ‘get to have’ what you want.

Stop being so God damn selfish!

In ALL areas of life, the people who you long to ‘one day’ be good enough or lucky enough to HAVE in your life are actively wishing they had YOU in their life!

It’s very very simple.

THE ONES WHO YOU ARE WAITING FOR ARE WAITING FOR YOU.

I suggest you get TF over yourself and go let ’em see you.

Tell them who you are.

Be BOLD, and truthful.

Show ALL of it.

And lay down all your wants and desires, as well.

The perfect match is out there.

In ALL areas.

But you’re never gonna find ’em if you don’t stand up and say yes –

Here I am.

 

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/