THEY’RE WAITING FOR YOU

Imagine if the mentors and coaches who had most influenced your life never said yes to boldly putting their true work out there, to getting over their insecurities and doubts and ‘who am I’, and to letting themselves be seen, and KNOWN, ultimately leading to you finding them.

When I think about the people who, through their work, have literally CHANGED my life to the level that I can’t ever FULLY express how grateful I am to them, I feel HORRIFIED at the idea of them not having been in my life.

It would be DEVASTATING.

Well, I guess I wouldn’t know, and I’d still be seeking, or someone else would have come along and filled that place, but the point is I am REALLY FREAKING GLAD THAT THOSE PEOPLE SHOWED UP.

As I’m sure you are, with the ones who have most impacted you.

But do you ever stop and think about the fact that these powerhouses, or heaven-sent healers and messengers, these amazing people who through their gifts have helped you to be more of you, that they do NOT in fact have anything magical that you don’t have?

They simply answered the call, and did the damn work.

Repeatedly, even on the days when they really didn’t want to, or feel up for it, or feel good enough, and thus they gradually built a brand, got ‘known’, and got found, by you.

And right now, the people who YOU are meant to most deeply impact are actively looking for you to show up, fully, and be there for them.

You walk around, and you tell yourself that you’re not good enough, or ready, to coach clients at THAT level, you know – the sort of clients who your soul tells you you’re most here to lead, and help – and so you don’t NAME it and CLAIM it and say hey – !

If you are a such and such person, I CAN HELP YOU.

And meanwhile, such and such high level very specific badass AF client is wondering why TF it’s SO hard to find a mentor or coach who GETS them, who shows up in the way they LONG for a mentor to show up, and who can kick their ass just right!

Don’t you get it?

You’re FULL of ego if you’re not simply and calmly stating THIS IS WHAT I DO AND WHO I AM HERE FOR AND HOW I CAN HELP.

The REAL thing, the BOLDEST vision, the most full on audacious high level shiz-niz.

You’re SAYING that your own fears and insecurities matter more than just doing what you’re meant to do.

And the clients, those badasses who you KNOW you can help – they are tearing their hair out wondering where you are!

It’s NOT easy to find a mentor or coach who can do all that YOU can do, for the simple reason that YOU ARE THE ONLY ONE WHO CAN FILL THAT ROLE.

So if you’re HIDING, downplaying, sweeping your true gifts under the carpet, or simply imagining that you can’t work with ‘those’ sorts of clients YET, then you’re STARVING your ideal clients of what they need and want, and also what is meant to be, because let’s face it –

When we desire and long for something –

A certain type of mentor or coach
A certain type of client
A certain type of lovvverrrrr
A certain type of support person
A certain type of friend
Etc

– that also means that that is what we’re SUPPOSED to have.

We don’t get given dreams which are not our dreams.

So, some poor person – and probably a lot of ’em – is walking around NOT ABLE TO FIND WHAT THEY’RE MEANT TO HAVE, and wishing they could have what they dream of, and YOU, like an asshole, or keeping it away from them.

It’s really not good enough.

It’s REALLY time to stop making it all about you and realising it is your RESPONSIBILITY to tell and show the world how you can help, it’s not something you somehow ‘earn the right’ or ‘get good enough or worthy’ to do.

This is equally true when it comes to calling in the exact romantic partner you want.

You think that your list of everything you want and long for and dream of is SO demanding, SO ridiculous, WAY too much, who the hell do you think you are, to imagine you should get to have a man with all of THAT going on, and besides – does such a person even exist? Is it even possible?!

Meanwhile, THAT EXACT PERSON is walking around wondering why THEY can’t find YOU.

Have you ever thought about the fact that a man like that could REALLY only be in a relationship with a very certain type of high-level woman? They’re NOT going to be able to settle for anything less than that!

And you, that actual person, are hiding away out of fear that you’re too demanding, or shouldn’t ‘get to have’ what you want.

Stop being so God damn selfish!

In ALL areas of life, the people who you long to ‘one day’ be good enough or lucky enough to HAVE in your life are actively wishing they had YOU in their life!

It’s very very simple.

THE ONES WHO YOU ARE WAITING FOR ARE WAITING FOR YOU.

I suggest you get TF over yourself and go let ’em see you.

Tell them who you are.

Be BOLD, and truthful.

Show ALL of it.

And lay down all your wants and desires, as well.

The perfect match is out there.

In ALL areas.

But you’re never gonna find ’em if you don’t stand up and say yes –

Here I am.

 

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