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Success Mindset


When you feel like there is so much to do, and so much you need or want to be on top of, and it’s all just so overwhelming, God wants to remind you to draw closer to Him.

You cannot simultaneously be in overwhelm, panic, anxiety, or carrying the weight of all you’ve not yet done and feeling bad about it, while also being connected to God and soul. The two simply can’t co-exist, so when you feel it all building up, or you look down the barrel of your day or week and it’s just UGH, you can’t even bear to take that first step due to the weight of all the steps which you’ve no idea how to take after it, just STOP.

And remember –

God wants to support you.

And that the reality of how your empire will come to fruition is it will happen in way you can’t know, and there’s nothing you need to do but listen to the instruction of the now.

Psalm 121: 1-2 –

“I lift up my eyes to the mountains – where does my help come from? My help comes from the Lord, the Maker of heaven and earth”.

Nowhere will you find, in either Biblical or secular wisdom, any sort of suggestion that when you need help you should turn your eyes down to your endless task list and try to somehow force your way through it; let the overwhelm and the pressure tell you that it is valid or real. It’s all just a feeling, and it’s one you can choose INTO or OUT of, now.

Anybody who understands that how life works best is when we acknowledge and leverage not only our physical gifts and abilities but our spiritual and supernatural as well, understands that the real work is often done in letting go, and in allowing ourselves to BE SUPPORTED FROM ABOVE.

For many, and I include my earlier self in this, gosh, she was addicted to this, one of the ultimate lessons is the lesson of LETTING GO OF NEEDING TO KNOW THE ENTIRE FREAKING PLAN IN ADVANCE.

“If only I had a plan … “

“If only I could see the next ‘xxxx’ steps … “

“If only I could make it out all nice and neat, point A-Z, and then just get it all done; power through and finally be on top of it all so that I could BREATHE, and be free!”

I have to admit there is still a part of me which buys into this, strongly. I find myself often feeling as though, if I could just have 1-2 clear days (maybe locked on a plane just circling the world; oh fine, I’ll go private and with my own personal hot AF butler if you insist!), I could get on top of ALL THE THINGS AND IT’D FEEL SO.DAMN.GOOD.

Finally I’d be clear of all this STUFF I know I have to do, should be doing, WOULD be doing, if I were being a good human, an organised entrepreneur, a proper Mum, homemaker, woman!

But –

Who told me I should be doing all these things?

Who planted in me the idea that I am LACKING in my ability to be fully me, or to live my life fully, if I’ve not yet ticked off a whole bunch of random stuff that I decided is the missing link to me being able to be present in my life?

Not God!
Not soul!
Not higher self!

“The thief (Devil) comes to kill, steal, and destroy” (John 10:10)

continued – “I (Jesus) came that they may have life, and have it abundantly”.

The killing, the stealing, the destroying, this occurs first and foremost in the attacks we receive that cause us to doubt, to question our first and our God instinct, to become mired in anxiety, or sadness, or hopelessness, or to BELIEVE IN ANY SORT OF LIE THAT IN ORDER TO BE ENOUGH, WE MUST FIRST DO ‘X’.

With ‘X’, for most of us, and particular for the driven and creative genius ones amongst us, like you and I, being EVERY POSSIBLE THING THAT WE EVER THINK OF, FOREVER AND EVER, AMEN.

Oh, so admirable that you don’t allow yourself to be swayed off path by not feeling like it, or by ideas of sabotage, procrastination, resistance, and so on! But don’t you see?

The perpetual need to have to work work WERK in order to get somewhere … so that you can finally be here, and ‘on top of things’ … is the most insidious addiction perhaps of all.

GOD did not tell you that in order to be here, and fully present and also COMPLETE, you must first complete these 29,000 items in your business or life.

“I came so that they may have life, and have it abundantly (to the full)”.


The End.


That’s the entire story!

There is nothing you have to first DO, in order to be present with God fully, in order to be present with your own self fully, or in order to live your LIFE fully.

No, no, no, no, no, I feel where your mind is going girl! “Okay, cool Kat, got it, and I BELIEVE it, my heart believes! Let me just real quick finish off this one thing, these ten things, get the house organised, get my business organised, finally do A and B and C and D over there, and oh look, fuck me, it goes all the way to Z”.

No girl no.

NOW you get to live your life fully.

Wipe the ENTIRE fucking list clear.

And I wonder –

Are you willing to live like that, trust like that, be led like that?

So many of you are living in frustration and resentment that you are doing all this WORK, and have taken it upon yourself to have to do so much MORE still, in order to make life work for yourself and for others, but you were NEVER TOLD TO DO THIS.

“As Jesus and his disciples were on their way, he came to a village where a woman named Martha opened her home to him. She had a sister called Mary, who sat at the Lord’s feet listening to what he said. But Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made. She came to him and asked, “Lord, don’t you care that my sister has left me to do the work by myself? Tell her to help me!” “Martha, Martha,” the Lord answered, “you are worried and upset about many things, but only one thing is needed. Mary has chosen what is better, and it will not be taken away from her.”

^^^ let’s unpack what this actually means, and how your soul knows it is real and TRUE that any ‘work’ to be done can only be found by being present to the now.

Indeed it’s very very simple:

Put first things first in every moment, and let the rest fall into place as a natural outcome of that.

Not sure what first things are, what is the #1 and #2 and #3 and ohhhhh, there you go again  …?

Here is how you do it:


And you ask, simply, what would you have me do?

Or, for what is this moment right here?

If you truly desire life to flow as it is meant to, you do this not even specific to a certain area, assigning this moment or that to business or parenting or fitness or life, but rather you ask it as a complete statement –

For what is this moment right here?

And then you trust on and act on THAT, and only that.

In fact you’ll find you don’t even really need to ask with time, it will just be felt, it will come to you, it will be obvious to you what that next step is RIGHT AS YOU COME UPON IT, and really, why would you need to know it any sooner?!

But but but but but – !

I get it. “But if I did life like that I might never get anything done, I’d be all over the place, a mess, and besides, I’d forget so much stuff I’m meant to be on top of!”

Well, in the end, it’s very black and white, isn’t it?

You can continue to play life with THAT paradigm, endlessly being not enough and having not done enough –

Or you can decide that from this moment you are led by God. Let by soul. Led by TRUST planted IN what you trust in.

The question is –

What DO you trust in, and how and where is that leading you or working out for you?

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.