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Success Mindset


When I didn’t believe in myself fully, or really understand how to back myself and trust in the madness within, I was continually trying to package and sell STUFF.

I’ll teach you this / I’ll show you that / lemme break it down / explain to you how / nuts and bolts / here’s the steps / let’s goooooo!

And it was good, it was very good, God saw that it was really quite fine actually, and certainly enough people said ‘Amen’ and bought, yet still –

It was hard-going, you know?

It was a continual ‘eye on the ball’ sort of thang and the truth is I really didn’t particularly love the ball.

I was okay with the ball, it was a good ball like I said, I didn’t MIND the ball, and I felt like sure people WANT the ball … in fact I felt like people definitely want the ball and that if I don’t provide the ball and teach / lead like this then they will all LEAVE me, or not even follow me in the first place, but okay, in all honesty?

I HATED that motherfucking ball.

I hated that with every move I made and every step I took to Teach The People The Things I was hammering another nail into the coffin I’d locked my soul up in, as through my actions I basically stated –

I don’t believe I can teach what I really want,

Talk what I really care about,

Or build a business that feels like flow and ease,

Never mind a life!

Something I have had reminded to me again of late is that when THE thing shows up it will feel like 100% flow and ease and fuck yes.

Habit might have you sit down to try and write this thing into a deeper reality, lock it in, and you’ll realise –


The thing which is the actual thing will feel so obvious. So natural. So complete. So NOT requiring of analysis or explanation, either.

And there will certainly be no ‘hope’ or ‘try’ or ‘push shit up a hill vibe’.

There won’t even be a question of having to keep your eye on the damn ball because there will be no feeling of SEPARATION, of having to ‘hold on’ or ‘make work’.

And if apply this to business how can it therefore mean that what you are DOING is anything other than simply BEING, being you and allowing people to receive from that.

As soon as you start adding things –

Or thinking about how to teach or preach or show up –

Tricking it up –

Well, it’s equivalent to dating where you’re worried always about how you’re showing up and if you’re doing what is necessary in order to be attractive, or move this thing forward.



You already know that THAT is not the foundation you wanna grow something on! And so if you’re brave, or just HONEST with yourself, and clear on your boundaries and standards, you’ll walk away.

The thing is –

ARE you?

When you look at what you’re doing, who you’re being, how you’re singing and dancing for pennies on the street corner in your biz right now, are you being brave, are you being HONEST, are you being clear on your boundaries and standards, and are you willing to walk away from all the honestly RIDICULOUS shit you’ve been trying to make it be about, trusting and knowing that when the thing is the actual thing it will be so.damn.OBVIOUS and natural and flow that there will BE no possible try –

Even if you tried to make there be a try!

Are you?

Or are you letting fear rule you, worrying and being led by the lack mindset of the world which says that life couldn’t BE that good, not for you at least, that you better grab what you can while you can, you better do it like the others, be like the others, dance and prance the RIGHT way …

Or you’ll end up cast out, broke, alone …

Never getting any place at all!


And if you know it’s the latter have you thought about, have you ACTUALLY thought about the next level horror that would come about from GIVING YOUR LIFE AND YOUR ALL ONLY TO END UP IN THE WRONG FUCKING PLACE?!

Worse even than having accidentally built the wrong life, knowing that in doing so you said NO to the right one?!

Because here is how it works and how it’s ALWAYS worked –

When you say yes to the thing that is not your thing,

no matter how ‘close’ it supposedly is,


You won’t see it pass you by
It will also not give YOU a second glance, because hey hey – YOU’VE SHOWN WHERE YOUR FAITH (or lack thereof) lies.

And so you will spend your days, as most do –

Working hard
Being a good girl or boy
Ticking boxes
Accruing accomplishments and stuff

What a life what success what acclaim!

Just a damn shame it’s all the wrong fucking thing
The not quite right people or (fuck!) person
The not quite right life

This is how it is.

For the 99.99%.

And maybe, if you don’t press PAUSE, hold up the stop sign within and say THAT’S ENOUGH LYING TO MYSELF NOW,

for you.

Which is tragic enough already, until you realise that all of this can change on a DIME.

Right now, today, you can be brave enough to tear down, shred, or simply turn away from anything that is not your actual thing,

and from every part of you which is not being honest with yourself about how it would be right now if you were saying yes to soul

And right now, today, you can decide to stand ONLY for truth, ONLY for soul, and ONLY for being who you were meant to be in every part of your business and your life

How will this look, you wonder, how will you package it, you wonder, how do you actually monetize your message and ‘you just being you’?

Well, here’s the rub –

And what you will laugh about one day, as you look back at how damn HARD you let it be –

The thing people will most pay for is the same thing they most need,

Your MINDSET girl.
The way you think.
Who you are on the inside.
How it is you have carved and sculpted and creating yourself into being this person, because isn’t it true that everything you DO is a product of who you ARE, so baby WHEN ARE YOU GONNA SHOW ‘EM WHO YOU ARE?

The truth is it’s only YOUR fear mind which thinks people care about what you do.

Show them who you are and they will not give a flying fuck about what you do.

Because the fact is, plain and simple, and THIS right here is the magic you can sell forever, that when you show them who you are you empower them to be all that THEY are, which in turn means they figure out what to DO and also that it never fucking mattered anyway.

All of this you already know.

So all you have to decide right now is are you willing to turn away from everything which is not this natural, this easy, this flow?

Yes you can have it all.

But only if you’re willing to have none of what is not actually IT ALL.

Eliminate the rest.

Make space for the best.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x


Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”



Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,


And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,



Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.


With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –


Starting January 18th!


The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –


For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:



All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.


Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.