The fastest way to elevate the reality you’re experiencing, is to hack that shit by simply creating an environment reflective of what WOULD be true if you WERE there.

Logically, it might seem as though focusing relentlessly on getting what you want is the best way to get it but for the most part? This just results in some kind of user-obsessive “I DON’T have it” vibe.

Which, suffice to say, is a great way to CONTINUE to not have it.

By definition, when you’re focused on everything you need to figure out or do in order to make the thing happen, you’re sending out a vibration which, like a broken annoying damn record, just keeps saying over and over again that YOU’RE NOT THERE.

What you wanna do instead?

Go to the place where it’s done. Dial up accordingly from there. Be the damn person, inside and out, in every possible way and sense. Hack the ENVIRONMENT of the thing!

Take just a second ago, for example. I was just about to begin writing this blog when my badass Inner Circle client Nicola commented on a ‘check-in’ post – you know, one of those ones you gotta do to get on line, about the cafe I’m at.

‘Good Lord!’ I thought! How did I leave THAT up?!

I quickly DM’d her – 

“Thanks for commenting on my post so I could realise I hadn’t deleted it!

Can’t have people knowing where I’m at in realtime!”


We laughed as I guess it does sound a bit funny, like REALLY – I’m sure people aren’t jumping up from what they’re doing to come watch me write in person but hey – YOU NEVER KNOW! Firstly, the last thing I want is anybody trying to talk to me when I’m writing (aside from that definitely always say hi haha), but secondly –

Issa whole vibe, y’know?

A FAME vibe, which I chose into a long time back.

Famous people don’t post where they’re at usually til after they left already. They definitely don’t leave random realtime check-ins up for all and sundry to see. It’s just how it is!

Make no mistake about it, as far as being KNOWN, I’m ONLY continuing to go up, and so I ALREADY show up as that version of me.

Make sense?

Makes sense.

Let’s talk about money though, ABUNDANCE, yeah, and gettin’ that flow on.

Earlier today I was on a 1:1 call with another badass boss babe client.

This woman recently did my 6-week high level immersion Next Level Empire, and has continued on as a 1:1 VIP client in #WarriorQueenSchool. And is of course (duh!) most likely Inner Circle bound after that.

“This is just my new normal!”, she said. 

She was sharing with me how, since we last spoke only a few weeks back, SO much has shifted.

Money flowing in as it damn well should
– Sales happening ‘even when I’m doing nothing’
– Current launch feeling like ONLY flow

“I can’t believe I’m launching and I feel so relaxed about it!”, she said.

This is a woman who crushes it at an income level most entrepreneurs don’t even let themselves seriously dream of, but who, when she came to me as a client, was doing the whole thing from, well – whatever the opposite of ease and flow is.

Tightness and scarcity? Comparisonitis and fear? Lack and exhaustion? Something like that!

I remember on our first call talking to her about how it is MEANT to be.

Launching gets to be fun and easy … ONLY flow … money showing up out of NOWHERE … sales coming in like magic, just by virtue of you being you, not because you worked your damn fingers to the bone and barely slept! And with ZERO compromise or sacrifice made on your enjoyment of life. In fact – the opposite!

I felt SO HAPPY to hear she has now switched into that flow and ease place and is claiming it as her new normal, but lemme tell ya –

She did the damn work that few will dare to do.

Namely, rode out a HELLUVA transition period in which surrendering to the new way required letting go of the old way and allowing shit to (to put it calmly) BLOW THE FUCK UP TO THE HIGH HEAVENS.

“You have to ride it out”, I told her at the time.

“Be strong enough to NOT give back in to the old way if you want to switch through to the new way. HOLD ON BECAUSE IT WILL SHIFT. It has to”.

And she held on.

Where most just DON’T, ’cause fear gets them and back they rush to the throat-choking DOING approach.

So anyway –

After we celebrated this epic shift, she asked me a question – “how do I dial this up now? I’ve been just doing it for the fun of it and not even bothering about sales and they’re just coming in! How do I now improve on that?”

I loved that this question was coming up, and also that she’d specifically mentioned this ease approach being her ‘new normal’, as all morning long while NOT writing this blog due to back to back appointments, I’d been thinking about how I wanted to write about dialling up your normal!


“Okay”, I said to her –

“Here’s what you do NOT do. You do not TRY to be better at being chill, or doing it for the fun of it. This is like that meme where the A-type chick is told to stop and smell the roses once in a while and then in the next frame you see her all ferocious and shit with a sign saying ‘rose smelling champion!'”


“Listen – there are no LEVELS of being chill, following soul, doing what you do for fulfilment and alignment. It’s not like there’s a 6-figure entrepreneur level of just doing it from soul … a 7-figure level … 8-figure … and so on!

There’s just –

You being chill and being guided by what YOU need for you each day –

Or not.

The thing which will dictate your INCOME is not whether you get better at being all ‘whatever’ about it and just following dat flow, the thing which will dictate your income is WHAT YOU EXPECT AND SEE AS NORMAL”

Did you hear that? Yeah – you now!!

The thing which will dictate your income is what you expect and see as normal!

YES, you need to be saying yes to soul … but saying yes to soul don’t make you rich!

Choosing to be rich makes you rich!

There is a broke AF version of you who is chill and only guided by soul –

And a multi-gajillionaire version –

And everything in between!

You want more money, just start claiming more money, simple, write it out daily as done – ‘I am so happy and grateful I make $XX,XXX today!’ (whatever figure is in alignment for you to stretch towards), and then get on with your day. Order placed. Nothing else to do! Then just keep dialling that shit up every time it starts to feel pretty normal.

We laughed about the idea of ‘trying’ to be even better at being chill, and then she asked a question which basically let me to exactly what I wanted to write about here today anyway:

“Is there anything else I need to know to amplify?”

Yessssss –

You have to hack the environment of it.

Inner and outer.

Look at everything which would be different right now if you were already being that person.

Would she be driving that car?

In that way?

Drinking that brand of sparkling water?

Eating like that?

Doing those tasks around the home?

Holding herself in that way?

Being that kind of CEO of her own business and life?

And so on?

Who would she be connecting with? Calling in to her space? Giving her time and energy to?

And so on.

When you create an environment reflective of the environment that the next level you would have, when you do that with actual dedication and consistency, coupled with surrender (it’s ALWAYS just ‘whatever’), then do you see what happens?




And that new normal? It produces a RESULT which reflects that normal.

It’s a simple case of if you want to become the person then be the damn person!

And here is what else:


There is ALWAYS more dialling up to do.

I mean, unless you’re the kind of person who gets to DONE?!

But, if you’re reading this, very likely not. For people like us, it’s not about whether we should keep going next level, or have to, it’s about the fact that settling is DEATH to us.

We can be fully content, grateful, happy where we are (and should be; that shit is a choice!) whilst also being INSISTENT UPON MORE.

Every more.


You want more, and know you’re born for it???

Start dialling up your damn environment. Name and claim what you choose as just IS every day in your journaling and intention setting. Then forget about it and go follow soul. Just remember that if you’re actually following soul?

You’d be doing it all the damn way to the top.

Be that person now. And watch as you become that person now.



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