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Live Your Passion

NOT BEING GOOD ENOUGH IS NO LONGER AN EXCUSE

This morning as I did my fame and wealth goal-writing I felt that pull of anxiety, that tug of worrying and wondering if I’m ALLOWED to just keep claiming more, becoming more, creating and having more.

After all, things are going so well! I’m blowing up online! Things just keep getting better and better! My income is growing … my fame is exploding … I’m LOVING my community so much and getting loved right back … I’m in ridiculously awesome shape … my marriage is getting better day by day … I just bought a brand new $130,000 car in 45-minutes flat … we’re getting our dream house … my energy is insane …!

IT’S ALL TOO MUCH, RIGHT?! Who the hell do I think I am to live such an epic life? Must be time to CRASH IT BACK DOWN AGAIN??!

Well, guess what?

Maybe it’s true, maybe you AREN’T good enough and you still need to prove yourself in order to be allowed to BREATHE let alone make money and rule the world. I mean personally I think it might – MIGHT – be time to just get on over that particular hang up and CLAIM YOUR RIGHT TO BE HERE, but here is what else:

Not being good enough is not an excuse for not being rich.

Not being good enough is not an excuse for not being successful.

Not being good enough is not an excuse for not letting things just KEEP ON GETTING BETTER.

Not being good enough is not a reason to not have it fucking ALL, on your terms, and now.

Sorry to burst your bubble … to cut off that thread you’ve been hanging to so tightly telling yourself woefully and with GREAT sorrow and slow-motion shaking of the head that the reason you’re not THERE yet is because – sob! – you just can’t seem to BELIEVE in yourself enough …

You just don’t know if you deserve it!

You’re just not sure you’re GOOD enough and why should YOU get to have things go so well!

So clearly, you know, you’ve got WORK to do to lift your self ESTEEM to believe in yourself to get into confidence and certainty and power so you can finally CREATE WHAT YOU DREAM OF.

Well, sure.

Keep telling yourself that bedtime story if it allows you to rest easier with the TRUTH, and the truth is this:

Not being GOOD enough is a bullshit excuse you’re trying to cover up the REALITY with.

THAT is the truth, and the reality is THIS:

If you don’t have what you want, it’s because you haven’t reached out your fucking hand and taken it.

What, you honestly believe that every shit hot rich badass with a hotass mofo out there (hashtag THAT!!) is better than you as a person? More worthy? Grew up with higher levels of self-doubt or has just ‘done more work on themselves’?

Maybe.

MAYBE baby.

And I say that in the way I’d say ‘yes honey, maybe Santa IS real’ if a freaking ADULT asked me, by which I mean STOP TELLING YOURSELF NAIVE FANTASIES AND BULLSHIT EXCUSES FOR WHY YOU DON’T HAVE THE LIFE YOU WANT AND ACT LIKE A FREAKIN’ GROWN UP ABOUT IT.

So yeah … MAYBE Kim Kardashian, Britney, Paris, Justin B and whoever else are all just BETTER AND WORTHIER PEOPLE than you who’ve done more personal development work.

But MAYBE it’s also just that the people who have the money you want, the fame you want, the success, the LIFE you want, asked for more.
Decided on more.
Insisted on more.
And then reached out and took more.

EVERYTHING you put up on a high pedestal and tell yourself you’ll one day be worthy of kissing the feet of is RIGHT THERE FOR THE TAKING.

I can tell you I deviate WILDLY between feeling empowered, in the flow, in the zone, like the biggest hottest BAMF out there and also questioning EVERYTHING, knowing NOTHING, wondering what the fuck I’m doing and most of all wondering WHY THE HELL SHOULD I GET TO HAVE IT SO GOOD?!

And yet, despite my EMOTIONAL UPS AND DOWNS ABOUT it, I choose the life I have because I know that whether or not I’m GOOD enough is an entirely separate fucking question to whether or not I get to be rich, hot, successful, famous and have it all.

I am rich because I decided to be.
My income goes up each month because I got sick of it not doing so and finally decided it would.
I have a hot body because I made it a non-negotiable.
I am improving my marriage because I got sick of my own bullshit about whether or not I’m good enough to be loved and just DECIDED TO LOVE AND BE LOVED.
I drive hot luxury cars because I made up my mind to.
I travel first class because I made the choice to do so.
I always have money left over, always pay my bills before they’re due, grow my savings weekly and easily afford all of my business, living, giving, fun and adventure spendings and desires BECAUSE I CHOOSE TO.

These are just SOME of the things I choose in my life. WHY do I choose them? Is it because I evolved to being allowed to? Fuck no! It’s because I DECIDED TO LET MYSELF TAKE RECEIVE AND CREATE WHAT IS POSSIBLE.

And ANYTHING is possible. Anything you DECIDE to create.

Those are just some of the MONEY related things I choose. I also choose to:

Wake up each day feeling amazing, energised and motivated and excited to get into my day, no matter how much sleep I did or (more common!) did not have. Because I’m GOOD enough to feel amazing? No! I don’t WANT to be tired and flat so I choose not to be.

I choose to be in LOVE WITH MY COMMUNITY, MY BUSINESS, MY TEAM, every thing I have to ‘do’ each day. Because I’m ‘good enough’ to have an awesome tribe and team? No! Because I got sick of having business feel like hard work so I decided I was going to make money doing what I love and love every PART of it as well!

I choose to be proud of myself as a Mum, of how I take care of myself, of how I live my life as a whole and to go to bed each night feeling freaking AWESOME about the day I just lived, certain that I IMPROVED every aspect of my business and life. I choose to feel that way regardless of what I did or did not do and regardless of what outcomes eventuated. And so I DO feel that way each day! Not because I’m good enough and not even because I ‘proved myself’, but JUST BECAUSE I CHOOSE to.

Because I got over being good enough or not, I set daily goals (and achieve all of them!) like:

I am super rich.
I am super fucking hot with a tiny waist.
I love and honour my husband.
I am proud of how I am as a Mum.
My community love me.
I love my clients.
My clients are hotass, badass, mofo’s who are super rich and successful.
I have over a million dollars in savings.
I always pay my bills before they’re due.
I take great care of my team.
I am hollywood famous.
I have millions of followers on my page and profile, and get tens of thousands of shares, likes, comments on my videos.
I wake up each day feeling amazing.
My brand is HOT and beautiful.
I am featured on the top entrepreneurial and success platforms, publications, podcasts.
I always make great decisions.
I always know what to sell.
Everything works out for my greater good.
I always travel first class.
I always exceed my money goals each week.
I am proud of myself.
I love my work.
I have easily enough time for everything that matters.
When things go well, they keep getting better.
I have so much FUN in my life!
I have incredible entrepreneur and success-minded friends!
I am impacting and transforming the lives of millions with my message!
I get everything done that matters today.
I have an awesome day today!

And on, and on.

Look, I’ll be honest – I was short on time this morning so decided to turn my own daily writing of my reality into a blog post for you. I refuse to NOT write my reality each morning because WHEN I WRITE AND AFFIRM IT OVER AND OVER AGAIN IT IMPLANTS INTO MY SOUL MY MIND MY DNA AND THEN I BELIEVE IT AND THEN I BECOME IT.

So I knew it was either write my journaling, or write today’s blog, and no fucking way am I not doing my mindset work but also no fucking way do I want to miss a day’s asskickery, so it had to be both.

But here is what else:

I’m sick of the bullshit.

I was sitting here starting to write all this stuff out in my journal and I realised I felt that pull of anxiety, that tug of worrying and wondering if I’m ALLOWED to just keep claiming more, becoming more, creating and having more. Things are going so well! I’m blowing up online! Things just keep getting better and better! My income is growing … my fame is exploding … I’m LOVING my community so much and getting loved right back … I’m in ridiculously awesome shape … my marriage is getting better day by day … I just bought a brand new $130,000 car in 45-minutes flat … we’re getting our dream house … my energy is insane …!

The old me would think:

AUGHHHHHHH! That’s too much awesome for one person! Crash it down! Burn it to the ground! SABOTAGE THAT SHIT FAST before, before, before – WHAT?

Before someone tells you that you can’t have it?

That you’re not WORTHY of it?

That’s not how life WORKS?

Well SURE. If that’s what you want, then LISTEN to the person telling you that what goes up must come down, that you can’t just SKIP FUCKING LEVELS IN YOUR SUCCESS PATH, that it needs to be STRUGGLE, that you need to SUFFER, that you need to keep breaking WAY down before every breakdown, that YOU’RE NOT GOOD ENOUGH.

But if you’re going to listen to that shit and then live by it? Just know this:

The person telling you the lies is you.

Enough is enough baby:

If you think you’re not good enough and you wanna keep thinking that, that’s your choice.

But in no way shape or form does it have ANYTHING to do with how rich you are, how successful you are, the impact you make and the fine ass you walk around in whilst doing so.

Being good enough is no longer an excuses.

SO GET TO FUCKING WORK.

Don’t forget –

Life is Now. Press Play.

Kat x

P.S.

Rebel.
Upstart.
Fuck the system; screw the rules.
Won’t do what they told me.
Too much.
Unreasonable.
Ridiculous.
Unprofessional.
Crazy!

Should I go on? I could, but I think you get the picture.

You’re the one who is not only not like the other PEOPLE, you’re also not like the other entrepreneurs.

They, they actually think they’re different; non-conformists?! Don’t make me laugh. You and I both see it as it is:

They just wanna be told how to build a pretty little website and a pretty little social media page or three and a pretty little online product or course and get their pretty little headshots and do a pretty little pre-scripted dance all over the internet so that other equally pretty fucking bland and boring and same same-y peoples pay them money,

And they can all sit in a pretty little womans circle together patting each other linking elbows and stroking each others hair and singing Kumbaya as the sun sets over another day of sinking ever deeper into the unremarkableness that is their lives.

They are the ones who are not only willing to jump through hoops, they also want to build more hoops for other people; they want to perpetuate the hoop jumping life and their whole sales pitch is basically some version of “I will help you to have a better and shinier hoop, come see!”

lolol

BUT REALLY.

Meanwhile, you –

You’ve tried the hoop-jumping life, maybe more than what you care to admit. And, whilst you’ve nothing against sitting around with other ladeez and stroking each others hair, you and your girls; the real ones?

You don’t exactly fit in in the typical woman’s circle.

You don’t feel at home with the pretty-preneurs, not even on the internet let alone in real life.

You don’t actually GIVE a fuck about having all your shit perfect,

Polished,

And just so –

And the idea of having sales and marketing and content processes which you have to systematically pre-plan and then work through and endlessly join dots with?

Makes you want to hurl.

Sure –

You’ve bought in at times to do the idea that maybe you DO gotta do it as they say.

An automated webinar, perhaps?? Facebook ads which carefully and smartly tell the world who you are and how you can help? A sales plan proven and tested by the greats. The gradual sinking slow decline of your soul, your joy, your dreams, and even your pussy as everything within you that once knew she could HAVE IT ALL AND DO LIFE HER WAY SLOWLY DRIES,

WITHERS TO NOTHING,

AND DIES?

Sure –

Why not

And look.

It’s not that any of these things are bad or wrong. Maybe right now you’ve got to a certain point by playing by the rules … kind of. Following what ‘logic’ suggests you do. Breaking free here and there with wild little jaunts into over the top madness, noticing how THAT lights you up and also how people respond to it … but ultimately continuing to go back to trying to find the right fucking system to get you to where you want to go,

Because this thing of trying to just be you interspersed with trying to get it all right and make it work, well –

It’s God damn tiring –

But also, in the end, if we’re going to be black and white about it, it hasn’t got you to where you want to be!!

You KNOW you should be making SO much more money.

NOW.

With consistency, and yeah, while of course of COURSE you’re down for doing the work, you also feel like it SHOULD be a lot easier, more flow

And you know that you know that you know that you’ve still not let out the most unrestrained and fully expressed side of you!

– The you they can’t look away from
– The you they are MAGNETIZED by
– The you who automatically commands a huge freakin’ following, and sales to match it

You know who I’m talking about –

THE MILLIONAIRE REBEL YOU!

Starting January 18th!

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

The revolutionary fucking leader who tears SHREDS off of normal every damn day before the rest of the world has barely sipped its coffee!

Who is FULLY unleashed in what she says, how she shows up, how she does business, how she does life.

Who does not give a fuck about following rules! Or sales systems! Or strategies! Who can and will do what works for HER, and if it happens to resemble other ways people build an audience and make a fuckload of money online, cool, and if not, so what! That is not the point! The point is –

She knows what works for her.
She backs herself unapologetically.
She DOES it.

And she gets the damn results. The BIG results. The CONSISTENT results. The FUCK yes results, not just with money but with the VIBERY of it all.

Imagine …

Waking up every day and KNOWING you have crushed the day before it already begun because THAT IS WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU ROLL!

* Your shit sells (at any and all price point)
* Your creativity and inner ideas machine flows endlessly (you always know what to put out into the world and that when you speak people PAUSE EVERYTHING AND LISTEN, whether it is with free content and shenaniganery or with your paid stuff)
* You don’t even have to think about low end or high end or how to take people through a value ladder or some such bullshit, the value ladder is YOU CONTINUING TO BE YOU, and the more that you DO you the more people just take themselves through whatever it is you’re offering!
* It is easy, natural, fun, and OBVIOUS how to build your automated income, funnels, the ‘cash machine’ side of your business.
* In fact the whole damn thing feels fun and easy and like you’re just being you (the full on you, the too much you, the rebel you, the fuck all of ’em THIS IS WHAT I STAND FOR AND NOW I’M GONNA TELL YOU you!),
* and at the same time you have the DEEPLY grounded and certain knowledge that the way you’re doing it, hot mess and chaos vibes and all, is WORKING. PS – the reason you feel certain of this is because your bank balance and soulmate audience and their feedback reflects it, not bc your spirit guides told you it’s coming

All of this is ALREADY available to you.

It is who you are and what you were born for.

You did not come here for normal!

You are one of the truly crazy ones, who has something inside of her that will leave the world BREATHLESS –
and allow her to make millions and impact millions –

BUT NOT IF SHE CONTINUES TO DO BUSINESS AND LIFE BY TRYING TO SOMEHOW BE A NON-CONFORMIST WHO CONTINUALLY CAVES AND CONFORMS.

For this to work,

REALLY work, like next next NEXT level $ and life flow work,
you’re going to need to FULLY turn your back on the idea that your breakthrough is waiting on the other side of you adjusting, filtering, compromising, playing the game the way the other entrepreneurs are playing it, or worrying about what the fuck your social media looks like!

What you’re going to need to do is simple:

FLICK THE DAMN REBEL MILLIONAIRE SWITCH BABY.

>>> https://thekatrinaruthshow.com/rebelmillionaire/

All in on madness.
All in on crazy.
All in on chaos.
All in on the TRUE epic awesome ridiculousness and too much-ness of YOU.

REBEL MILLIONAIRE

Starting January 18th!

For those who were born to run the damn thing,

To turn the world on its head and dance on top of it,

And who are ready to do just that.

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